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Confusion about one girl

there is a girl in my class, who at first introduction didnt mingle with me atall. Then couple of days later until which i had never existed on her radar, she comes and talks to me...1 month later its like she only talks to me most of the time and always sits next to me always approaches me first. I tried avoiding her just for fun and she always finds a way to be close with me. So i kinda have a crush on her...next thing is 2 times i asked if she wanted to watch a movie with me and both the times she said shed love to but was busy. its like we only know each other at class. even when we had a field trip practical day she always stays by my side...

the question is how do i find out whether she like me or not?...and should i ask her out at all?

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Reply 1

MrsTimms

She sounds like she's giving you mixed messages, one minute she's flirting with you by wanting to sit near you, next minute she says she's too busy to go to the cinema with you. I think I would play it cool and see how things pan out. How long has this been going on for?

Reply 2

Tyrannosaurus Cal

It sounds like she might like you, but isn't sure... you could ask to go somewhere with her, somewhere other than seeing a film, as that might sound a bit too datey for her?

Reply 3

A.Jitto

well thank you for your reply...this has been this way for a month now...its like she opens upto me alot whenever we meet. its always kinda awkward when say good bye...and what should my next step be?

Reply 4

A.Jitto

oh yeh for the record Im asian shes british...so are the odds low or even?

Reply 5

MrsTimms

I think if things are meant to work they will work. In the meantime, be yourself, friendly and approachable and see how they go. One month really isn't a long time to suss out how you feel about each other. How many times a week do you bump into each other?

Reply 6

evil groove

Why don't you consider just staying friends with her?

Reply 7

A.Jitto

3 days a week i get to meet her...its hard just to be friends with her coz she has everything atleast most of what i want in a gal

Reply 8

evil groove

A.Jitto

3 days a week i get to meet her...its hard just to be friends with her coz she has everything atleast most of what i want in a gal

(I'm not being mean or anything but) Are you sure you're not looking at the situation mistakenly because there aren't any other options in your life atm? Maybe you've just got the wrong idea about her and her intentions. If she's rejected you twice using whatever excuse it was, then take that as a sign. If she wanted to go out with you she would've asked you herself when she was free. Just consider it, that's all.

Reply 9

*Katie*

I wouldn't. First time coincidence, second time happenstance, third time - something's going on. You've nothing to lose. This time ask "When are you free to do x", because then you'll no whether she's just busy at the times you've suggested, or whether she's genuinely not interested.

Reply 10

MrsTimms

Good advice Katie, if you want an answer then take the bull by the horns. If not sit back and let things take it's course.

Reply 11

ThatLauren.

She might just be trying to play games with you, it sounds to me like she's interested. But is just trying to keep you interested in her by acting differently/hard to get.

Tell her how you feel and see what she says. If you're honest with her she should stop with the mixed signals.

Reply 12

qubog

Maybe she genuinely was busy? Give it another shot, but make it sound friendly as not as a date. I know i'd far rather a guy I liked wanted to go somewhere as friends than hey lets go on a date. It's a bit intense and scary

Reply 13

Ron Stoppable

A.Jitto

oh yeh for the record Im asian shes british...so are the odds low or even?

Low, because you perceive petty differences on a much grander scale than they are. Take time to love and appreciate yourself, stripped of labels, then bring others into the party. :smile:

Reply 14

Nalced

Women. Bah.

Never understand them, never will.
As for the "I'm asian". Doesn't it depend which Asian? Cause In Bangkok, its fashionable to have a Korean bf/gf

Reply 15

A.Jitto

I asked her again today..she said YES>>>...how the hell did that happen?....this is soo getting me paranoid....hmm now whats the best thing should i pull a move already? or wait?

Reply 16

*Katie*

A.Jitto

I asked her again today..she said YES>>>...how the hell did that happen?....this is soo getting me paranoid....hmm now whats the best thing should i pull a move already? or wait?

Huh? Surely you've planned a time to go out now? :confused:

Reply 17

paulocoelho<3

OMG i'm in the same situation except mine *crush* hasn't rejected me bc simply i haven't ask 4 anything..
let us know how this develops!

Reply 18

A.Jitto

well it kinda awkward coz i asked a couple other friend of mine andthey said they cant make it and then shecomes in and says she wants too...didnt see that coming...well the day is today lets see how it goes

Reply 19

MrsTimms

Good luck and let us know how it goes!

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