Is this normal in friendships?

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I have a friend who tells everybody's business to everybody, and it's ended up with people I hardly know knowing about my personal life and I'm not very happy.

I met a friend of hers once who I was attracted to, and he pretty much knew my dating history without me having to say a word.

Another time, a girl I'd say was an acquaintance at that point knew that I had been struggling on my course and thinking of leaving.

Another knew that I'd had financial problems (even though I've met her maybe twice in my life)

On the other hand, I know that one of her friends cheated ,I know that another had an abortion, that another had drug problems etc. even though I don't really know these people.

I feel like I cannot trust her; I don't mind her telling general stuff about me but I'm not happy with everybody knowing my business. Does this seem like a normal thing in friendships?

I know people like to talk and gossip but I don't want others knowing everything about me from someone else..
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Ezisola
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You know what they are like so..... just don't tell them things you don't want shared? Problem solved
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Toxic. Cut her out of your life, or stop telling her stuff. Not really much of a friend.
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no

your friend is a **** lmao
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she is not a friend at all like that's just plain and utter wrong.
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I knew a girl EXACTLY like this. She is so toxic and I did the right thing cutting her out of my life
Do the same!!!
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Cut her out of your life. Why are you telling her those things if you know she's going to say something to others?
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