what is the best thing to do?

So on saturady night, went out with my friends, went back up to their flat, got drunk and was just watching tv and talking, then their flatmate came in so was talking to him, got back to my flat and added him on facebook, he asked fo number so i gave it him, then he said meet me on teh stairs bwteen out flats so I did, and ended up kissing and then came back to my fla and ended up sleeping togther. He left in teh morning and woke me up to say he was going and gave me a goodbye kiss. But hes not had contact withe me since

But now hes told all his friends, and i feel like I cant go up to their flat and see my friends as he lives there. I just feel so stupid. As i actually like him. Am just so sick of guys just sleeping with me, and not wanting more.

I dont know what top do about this guy?

Reply 1

username47781

20

Well it seems he saw you as an easy shag, if he hasn't contacted you i'd forget him and put it down to experience.

If you hate things like this happening then stop rushing straight into sex, get to know the guy a bit more first.

Reply 2

squeak

21

just get a lil courage and dont let it stop you seeing your friends. act like it was just a one off. think of it as if you were using him for a bit of pleasure. if you make it a problem it'll be one. you never know, he might not have had the courage to contact you and you might have a blossoming relationship on the horizon...or a friendship

if worst comes to worst and he's being a prick about it, you've seen his penis, and you have the power to let every girl know how small it was...

win win :wink2:

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

17

dont offer urself on a plate like that?

Reply 4

Hylean

15

talk to him about it, if it bothers you that much. bring a knife and threaten castration if he acts like a dick.

otherwise, move on.

Reply 5

KinkayGema

11

For the guy...it was drunken sex. You slept with him on the first night without really knowing him- if you don't want guys just using you for sex then thats not the best thing to do now is it? Get to know a guy better before rushing into things from now on.

Reply 6

Profesh

20

Anonymous

So on saturady night, went out with my friends, went back up to their flat, got drunk and was just watching tv and talking, then their flatmate came in so was talking to him, got back to my flat and added him on facebook, he asked fo number so i gave it him, then he said meet me on teh stairs bwteen out flats so I did, and ended up kissing and then came back to my fla and ended up sleeping togther. He left in teh morning and woke me up to say he was going and gave me a goodbye kiss. But hes not had contact withe me since

But now hes told all his friends, and i feel like I cant go up to their flat and see my friends as he lives there. I just feel so stupid. As i actually like him. Am just so sick of guys just sleeping with me, and not wanting more.

I dont know what top do about this guy?

Try having standards.

what is the best thing to do?

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