My father is a traditional ******* believing women dont need education

Well, I am in a lot of mess and i really need advice. I have been dragged into a marriage that is well...forced. I am yet to be married as they have only got me engaged to the prick from back home (who is a desperate dickhead with no sort of ambitions or plan for future qualifications). My dream at first was from a child to become a dentist as my father is a doctor however, he had shattered my dreams by trying to make me comply to traditions of Asians. My mother has less extreme views but has been brainwashed by my father into believing that women need men and are forever dependant on them. I have lost all faith in my religion, although it is a big crime to them, yes, but being born into a religion without having faith ultimately means nothing. Anyways, as i tried to get through my GCSE's i kind of gave up as my so called mother would abuse me, physically and emotionally. After my GCSE's had ended (i had done alright although i had potential to do better) I got into college and currently just, finished my first year. In October, 2016, the engagement happened, despite me telling my mum that i'll never forgive her or never will be happy if she forces me into this. She'd go on about how his family is nice and blah blah. But im not a fan of incest unfortunately. So, the time of applying to universities will come near, and on many occasions i have planned on leaving home. I am certain and have started saving up, but the problem is applying for university. My friend has given me her address from which i can apply, but i have to keep this away from my parents as i now have ambitions of being a lawyer, and i really need to do something with my life. I dont want to be trapped here forever, being a housewife and popping out kids. The thing is, i dont know if i'll be able to pass my Alevels at this rate as I'm going crazy. I dont know whether to apply for a university in the place i am and tell my parents that ill just be applying for the local one or to keep it a secret and really escape. If any of you are going through the same, I'll gladly listen, always here. Thanks for reading this guys.

That's not how it works.You cannot force people to get married here.Don't act like the parents are doing some great thing by supporting her.They're not.If you want kids then the very least you can do is feed them and clothe them.You don't get extra points for doing that.Its your obligation as a parent because you wanted the kids.The kid does not owe the parents for that.That is expected of them.Just because she lives in their house does not mean she has to follow their rules if they are unreasonable.The laws of the land supersede that of her parents.You cannot force someone into marriage end of.Its illegal.

Ok, say she talks your terrible advise and reports him to the police. Then what? They arrest the father, she loses all relations with her family. She has broken a home, she is on her own. It achieves nothing.

Ok, say she talks your terrible advise and reports him to the police. Then what? They arrest the father, she loses all relations with her family. She has broken a home, she is on her own. It achieves nothing.

I don't know why people are saying contact social services, social services have no regard whatsoever for relationships. Their job is to keep you safe and put a roof over your head, they will most likely pull her out straight away and that is it, the relationship with her parents and other family members finished.

OP needs to decide what is more important, the relationship with her family or her career.

She is better off without her sorry excuse for a father. At least she won't be sold off to a strange man to be raped.

Ok, say she talks your terrible advise and reports him to the police. Then what? They arrest the father, she loses all relations with her family. She has broken a home, she is on her own. It achieves nothing.

And you think money grows on trees.

This is a typical labour support, go into a ditch and then start digging like a retard.

This is what I'm saying and people are labelling me an inbred and a troll. OP has the option of doing what her parents tell her or severing ties.

Personally I would severe the ties, but then you have the big bad world to face. She needs to get financially smart.

For someone who has fucc all to her name as bank balance, this is a very brave move on her part.

the only retard here is you, you can go back to whatever degenerate country you're from and preach that nonsense you inbred goat

Ok, say she talks your terrible advise and reports him to the police. Then what? They arrest the father, she loses all relations with her family. She has broken a home, she is on her own. It achieves nothing.

What nonsense did I preach?

That you need money to survive in the outside world? No fuccing ****, sherlock.

And you think money grows on trees.

This is a typical labour supporter, go into a ditch and then start digging like a retard.

There are a lot of youth charities that can help her find housing. She can also take out a maintenance loan from Student Finance. A lot of universities have their own scholarships and bursaries that they award to their students. It's not completely the end of the world for her.

Im not talking about that, inbred. Im talking about you saying that its their house rules so they can do what they like. God its a real ****ing shame your parents are cousins, you wouldnt be so ****ing stupid if they werent

Indeed

Yes, but you are putting yourself in a hard situation. She will need to grow up extra fast at this rate.

There are too many idiots on this forum, the bank of mum and dad supports TSR trolls.

Her parents are not obliged to house her for free then. They can show her the door frankly.

Yes, morally sound parents look after their kids. But messed up ones don't. The deeds of the house is most likely in her fathers name, so he is obliged to keep her or not. He can call the police and have her removed if she doesn't go.