i'm starting to loose it

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I'm sure i'm not the only man going through a situation like this, so some of it will be as blunt as a dull blade. I have a girlfriend, been dating her for around 4 years now. we get along and all, even if she is a little psychotic. But the main problem with it all is that she has 0 sex drive and refuses to sleep with me in the first place. Believe it or not, its been 6 years since I last had sex. You do not want to know how I deal with the stress this is causing me, and no, it has nothing to do with sleeping with other women or cheating. Can somebody please give me some advice on what I should do? it would be appreciated immensely.
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It's clearly a big issue for you. Why are you in this relationship?
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It's clearly a big issue for you. Why are you in this relationship?
Sometimes I ask myself that very question, then i remember every time that i love her. I've not got the heart to break another.
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You can love someone, but this isn't - in your eyes at least - a proper 'relationship' because of the lack of sex.

Have you ever talked with her about the option of you being sexual with other people? Clearly a monogamous but non-sexual relationship is not what you want.
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You can love someone, but this isn't - in your eyes at least - a proper 'relationship' because of the lack of sex.

Have you ever talked with her about the option of you being sexual with other people? Clearly a monogamous but non-sexual relationship is not what you want.
I'll put what you said there into consideration. you may have just cleared a huge problem for me, thankyou
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