dilemma! I am so confused!

Right, so there is this guy who volunteers with me, and i see him once a week. We are really good friends - at least i think so, cos we used to share all our secrets and stuff, and we confided in each other - i supported him when he broke up with his girlfriend.

However, in the past few months, he's changed his attitude to me - he doesn't talk to me about his personal stuff, or his girlfriends, and he's generally quite closed off when i ask him how he is.

Also, i think i fancy him - Ever since 6 months ago I can't stop thinking about him, he makes me smile/laugh and i really look forward to seeing him. The problem is i don't know whether he likes me or not, cos he is sending me really mixed signals. He's been teasing me a hell of a lot and i keep catching him staring at me frm the corner of my eye. He makes an effort to look good and he apologises when his hair sticks up! He makes an effort to be in the same room as me, and we have a lot of chats - but not as deep as they used to be. He also told me a monththat i looked really nice.
He told me that we shud go and play sum badminton (obvs being the shy person i am i stupidly turned him down BUT he kept reminding me that i owed him a game of badminton, so i gave in, telling him that he just had to tell me the place and the date. He hasn't got back to me on that topic at the moment - this was about a month ago!) AND he offers to do the hoovering etc. cos he knows how much i loathe it, since i have had to do it for, like, forever!
But then he also talks about how i should get a boyfriend???! Is he just a good friend or does he fancy me too? am i reading too much into this? i know
I sound like i am obsessed with him, but he is driving me crazy, and i hate the fact that i keep thinking of him, cos i know i shudn't be, because he already has a girlfriend.

As well as this, he broke up wid his other girlfriend 2 weeks ago, and didn't tell me, and then he got another girlfriend the following week!!!!(this is really important to me, as we are really close, and i kind of expect him to tell me, because we are such good friends)

I am sooooo confused, because i don't know whether he fancies me or not, or whether i am scaring him off?( i do tell him how over-protective my parents are, which is probably not such a good idea)
Also, i don't know whether we are really good friends or not??!

please give me some advice!!!

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