I like my friend's "boyfriend" !

My friend at college has a girlfriend and I know know know he likes me - and as soon as she sees me walk into the canteen, she's all over him.

She's my friend as well but it really annoys me that I like her boyfriend. I'm not big headed but they just don't go together - they don't even talk, she just sits on his lap like a dummy. :eek:

I think he thinks I'm too good for him but I want to try and let him know that I'm not and we're perfect for each other. How shall I do this??!!!

Reply 1

Joanna May

15

You sound deluded.

Reply 2

generalebriety

16

You don't like your friend's "boyfriend", you like your "friend"'s boyfriend.

(In case that was too subtle: back off. She's the one going out with him. You're just being a bitch by trying to split them up.)

Reply 3

Ironic_

If this is what you do to your friends i'd hate to see what you'd do to an enemy.

It's simple really. Either you want to be the girl's friend, or you want to steal her boyfriend. You can't do both, so you have to decide which one you want more.

Reply 4

miki_da_magpie

2

Hehe, akward as anything I would think. Depends how good mates you are with ur girl-friend.... would you be able to tell her? Probably not. So leave it well alone.

Reply 5

The Basilisk

OP

I'm seriously not but I don't know how to prove it! He's a bit of a player and he's made what he's thinking crystal clear.

Reply 6

Redemption

14

Friends come and go. Epic relationship breakups and even more epic sex lasts is remembered forever.

Seriously? Be machiavellian. There aint no other way about it. Learn to manipulate people.

Reply 7

Joanna May

15

The Basilisk

I'm seriously not but I don't know how to prove it! He's a bit of a player and he's made what he's thinking crystal clear.

If he wanted to date you, he would be dating you. At the very least, he wouldn't be dating anyone else.

Reply 8

The Basilisk

OP

generalebriety

You don't like your friend's "boyfriend", you like your "friend"'s boyfriend.

(In case that was too subtle: back off. She's the one going out with him. You're just being a bitch by trying to split them up.)

There should be inverted commas around both words - she's not a good friend and she's the one who jealous when he spends most time with me. But at the same time I don't want to hurt her and lose a friend.

Reply 9

miki_da_magpie

2

The Basilisk

I'm seriously not but I don't know how to prove it! He's a bit of a player and he's made what he's thinking crystal clear.

Lol, "he's a bit of a player" why the hell are you even interested. "He's made what he's thinking crystal clear" so he's pretty much already cheating on your friend in your eyes. Sounds like a rite top bloke to me. :rolleyes:

Reply 10

The Basilisk

OP

Redemption

Friends come and go. Epic relationship breakups and even more epic sex lasts is remembered forever.

Seriously? Be machiavellian. There aint no other way about it. Learn to manipulate people.

I'm not like that - I'm a good person, but you can't help who you like, and this in this case it's obvious what he wants.

Reply 11

The Basilisk

OP

Joanna May

If he wanted to date you, he would be dating you. At the very least, he wouldn't be dating anyone else.

I hope so, and I'm trying not to be presumptious but he's really playing me now!

Reply 12

Ron Stoppable

14

The Basilisk

My friend at college has a girlfriend and I know know know he likes me - and as soon as she sees me walk into the canteen, she's all over him.

She's my friend as well but it really annoys me that I like her boyfriend. I'm not big headed but they just don't go together - they don't even talk, she just sits on his lap like a dummy. :eek:

I think he thinks I'm too good for him but I want to try and let him know that I'm not and we're perfect for each other. How shall I do this??!!!

Whoa - time out!

You need to go out and meet boys. Lots of them. Forget all coupled fitties until you've seriously built upon your social experience and value.

Reply 13

Ironic_

The Basilisk

But at the same time I don't want to hurt her and lose a friend.

Oh come on, it's not rocket science is it. If you don't want to hurt someone, you don't steal their boyfriend! In fact i'd say the decent thing to do here would be to tell her that her boyfriend is an ass and you both get rid of him, which by what you've said he probably is.

Reply 14

20083

2

Suggest a 3some.

Reply 15

generalebriety

16

The Basilisk

There should be inverted commas around both words - she's not a good friend and she's the one who jealous when he spends most time with me. But at the same time I don't want to hurt her and lose a friend.

Whatever, he's her boyfriend. Not her "boyfriend" or her 'boyfriend' or her '''''boyfriend'''''. They're going out together, so you back off and leave them alone and stop thinking you know exactly how good or bad they are together.

Reply 16

The Basilisk

OP

miki_da_magpie

Lol, "he's a bit of a player" why the hell are you even interested. "He's made what he's thinking crystal clear" so he's pretty much already cheating on your friend in your eyes. Sounds like a rite top bloke to me. :rolleyes:

You are so right - and I don't even know why I like him - he's really sweet as well though and I love his personallity - its really wierd.

Reply 17

Wangers

16

generalebriety

Whatever, he's her boyfriend. Not her "boyfriend" or her 'boyfriend' or her '''''boyfriend'''''. They're going out together, so you back off and leave them alone and stop thinking you know exactly how good or bad they are together.

Spot on, give that man a coconut :biggrin:

I can't give more rep today :frown:

Reply 18

miki_da_magpie

2

The Basilisk

You are so right - and I don't even know why I like him - he's really sweet as well though and I love his personallity - its really wierd.

Sounds like ur just crushing on him because he's unattainable. And it also sounds to me like he's just trying to get you to make a move, see how desperate you are for him, how far you'll go, bit of an ego trip. Seriously, either stay well away, or get him to flirt with you and then shuv it in his face by telling his current gf. Guys like this deserve to be castrated. :smile:

Reply 19

evil groove

Everyone will hate you if you are perceived to be the reason they break up. In their eyes he'll be a hero and you'll be some kind of tramp. Best not to go there.

I like my friend's "boyfriend" !

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