Downhill Relationship

Been with my gf for 14 months and I've noticed our relationship is going downhill lately. We're arguing more and haven't been spending as much time together. We talked about it a few times but things don't improve for long.

Any ideas how to resurrect a relationship when you don't know why it's going downhill?

How do I make things go back to how they were? I love her so much.

Reply 1

dh00001

keep talking. find out why youre arguing and whats wrong. it needs to be discussed without shouting.
then try to reach a soloution which suits both parties.
it will be hard but doable if you work at it

Reply 2

Nix!

http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=475547

Coincidence?

Reply 3

username47781

dh00001

Agreed, you both need to discuss this when you are both calm and find out why you are arguing so much.

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

We talk about it calmly and it appears sorted out, but then things go bad within a few days like..

Reply 5

username47781

WHy do you keep arguing after talking? have you found the cause of it?

Reply 6

prettygreeneyes99

Perhaps try a break, a week or so with no contact? That might be a good way to get your relationship back on track, a little time apart to evaluate things can work wonders! Failing that, maybe when an argument gets started try spending 10 mins apart from eachother so the situation calms down a little?

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