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kissing.... girls....help.... i know this is stupid but need help

ok, lets get this over with, i'm fairly new at the whole dating thing...only recently had girls interested in me, and don't know alot,

but i like this girl and i'm going to a party thing with her on sunday and i think she kinda likes me too, but i ain't very good at picking up on these things, any tips on how to look for it?

also...
how do i know when a girl wants me to kiss her? what is the best way to do it? tips etc whatever you say can help me :smile: cheers

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If she touches you a lot in a flirty way and spends a lot of time with you that is normally a good sign. On the kissing front if you think she likes you just go for it, I'm in the same situation with a guy and I wish he would just make the move. If you feel the time is right then go for it. Also if you talk to her a lot online or in person why don't you just ask her if she likes you at least then you will know where you stand. hope that helps a little - maybe I should take my own advice as well. xx
Reply 2
She'll kiss you even if she didn't want it to happen; she'll tell you that later.
Reply 3
that doesn't make uch sense does it ^^

also how do i kiss her, kissing techinques please....
Reply 4
It'll make sense once you do it. Trust me on this one.
If you kiss that girl, she won't say no. She'll let you kiss her. Afterwards, if she smiles, you're in the clear, but if she leaves immidiately, you're in trouble. I hope this makes it clearer.

Just be... gentle. Don't force in your tongue, don't suck on anything and don't chew on her lips. Don't spit in bucket loads of saliva and be very SLOOOOOOOOOOOOOW. Thats the key boy; be SLOW. That's a caring kiss. A quick and fiesty one just tells her you're horny.
Reply 5
Stick tongue in
Rotate clockwise 360degrees
Rotate anti-clockwise 360degrees
Use enough saliva to fully complete the washing machine simile
Remove tongue.


A really good time to go for it is when she gets up to go to the toilet - grab her round the wrist, pull her down and in with the tongue.
Reply 6
Thud
Stick tongue in
Rotate clockwise 360degrees
Rotate anti-clockwise 360degrees
Use enough saliva to fully complete the washing machine simile
Remove tongue.


A really good time to go for it is when she gets up to go to the toilet - grab her round the wrist, pull her down and in with the tongue.


Thats how you do it :p:
Thud
Stick tongue in
Rotate clockwise 360degrees
Rotate anti-clockwise 360degrees
Use enough saliva to fully complete the washing machine simile
Remove tongue.


A really good time to go for it is when she gets up to go to the toilet - grab her round the wrist, pull her down and in with the tongue.

Wow, the commie does satire... who'd've thought!

OP: Assume she wants to kiss you. It's your best bet. Signs she likes you are spending time with you, touching, smiling, etc but none of them are foolproof. That's why you have to assume. And as for actually kissing her, the quickest way to kiss well is to follow the 'less is more' philosophy. Certainly don't just shove your tongue as far into her mouth as possible. Think passionate and assertive but gentle.
Reply 8
Thud
Stick tongue in
Rotate clockwise 360degrees
Rotate anti-clockwise 360degrees
Use enough saliva to fully complete the washing machine simile
Remove tongue.


A really good time to go for it is when she gets up to go to the toilet - grab her round the wrist, pull her down and in with the tongue.



what if she loosens up too much?
Reply 9
Sehnsucht
Wow, the commie does satire... who'd've thought!

OP: Assume she wants to kiss you. It's your best bet. Signs she likes you are spending time with you, touching, smiling, etc but none of them are foolproof. That's why you have to assume. And as for actually kissing her, the quickest way to kiss well is to follow the 'less is more' philosophy. Certainly don't just shove your tongue as far into her mouth as possible. Think passionate and assertive but gentle.


Thank you for repeating my advice banana-face :mad:
Dont slober on her :biggrin:
Reply 11
A Y Z
She'll kiss you even if she didn't want it to happen; she'll tell you that later.


agreed. i'm an animal so i go for every opportunity; they all kiss back, but only some (a small amount :rolleyes: ) do anything further.
Reply 12
Do not say these words: Give it to me baby.
A Y Z
Do not say these words: Give it to me baby.

Now they tell me....
A Y Z
Thank you for repeating my advice banana-face :mad:

Bite me, Adolf.
Reply 15
Thud
Stick tongue in
Rotate clockwise 360degrees
Rotate anti-clockwise 360degrees
Use enough saliva to fully complete the washing machine simile
Remove tongue.


A really good time to go for it is when she gets up to go to the toilet - grab her round the wrist, pull her down and in with the tongue.


This is going to come back and haunt you one day :wink:
if you are embraced for a while.. 2 mins or more, just move in for the kiss :wink:
Reply 17
I always find that if im not sure whether he wants to kiss me back, the best way to check is to stare into his eyes while we have hold of each other. If he stares back, he wants to kiss me, if he looks away awkwardly, i back off. It just...happens, nobody forces anything, its just natural.
I was very surprised when i had my first kiss and was shocked at how natural it felt.
The_Adarshster
Now they tell me....


ROFLZ!!!!
Kady
I was very surprised when i had my first kiss and was shocked at how natural it felt.


same :smile: