I'm just not a nice person- struggle to get along

keep anon.

I struggle to get along with people. I just see them all as a bunch of ******* who are their just to keep themselves perfect. I don't get along with anyone, my own family are the biggest load of bleepers ever who never seem to understand me and because of this i get fustrated easily, i just don't think i'll ever be 'nice'I try to be pleasant, but whats the point if no one excepts you as yourself. People never seem to take me as i am, i don't want to change for anyone else, but that anyone else is everyone else so i have to change for anybody but that is everybody. I struggle to trust people and am very very very paranoid and am very shy, i'm very self consious because of my blushing which is excessive and general appearance. I find words hard to come by and feel out of place in society generally.

Reply 1

Fingers and bones

Turn that frown upside down!
Try your best always to be nice, if all else fails.... just try to be nice :smile:

Reply 2

louisedotcom

To summerise, you think that everyones a ******, you dont want to change but you still expect people to except you for who you are?

I wouldnt want to be friends with anyone who thought I was a ******. Rather than just trying to be pleasent why dont you address the reasons why you dont trust anyone or believe they are all out for themselves?