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Butterflies

This is a bit tricky/ delicate so I think i've used Anon correctly. If not, please delete.

Basically I met a girl while on a uni social who had come to visit her boyfriend at the same university as me. I'd noticed her, so I went over and she actually introduced herself as such and such's girlfriend. I only know the bf's face, but not to talk to.

We began talking and the conversation was smooth, with lots of flicking of the hair, inconspicuous (but obvious to me) touching of arms etc. I only vaguely know the bf and whenever he came to drag her away or whatever she'd just come back and we'd go on talking and whatnot, which was really nice.

Summing up: omg i've got butterflies... first time in many years, I'd forgotten what they were. I facebooked her and she didn't answer- Anyway, what should I do? I think i should just have fond memories and move on.

xx

Reply 1

Awh...i think thats so sweet! but i think just leave it at that...she's wit someone else and i dont think you want get tangled up in all that mess, :fight: ...after all butterflies do die x ...

Reply 2

Hmm yes, although I don't getting entangled in their relationship, I did want to be friends with her. I wasn't actually looking to tell her how I felt or anything, just be friendly, and a nice feeling to have inside, you know?

Reply 3

aww.. that’s so sweet. :p: but I think you're right to just leave it at that.. she's with someone else and you don't want to be getting involved in all that.
just keep the memories of those butterflies.

Reply 4

Anonymous
Hmm yes, although I don't getting entangled in their relationship, I did want to be friends with her. I wasn't actually looking to tell her how I felt or anything, just be friendly, and a nice feeling to have inside, you know?


I know what you mean , but eventually yu might fall head over heels for her, it really depends on how strongly yu feel...