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Asking someone out
I met this guy through a friend over the summer. About 3 weeks ago he came to our houseparty and we swapped numbers. Since then we've been out a few times and are talking lots via text/email/msn. Last Sat we were in a club & he kissed me properly. Since then I've seen him twice & he hasn't. Its starting to annoy me tbh! I'd like him to ask me out properly or at least feel we are making progress. I'm seeing him tonight with some friends. Should I bring it up or am I being impatient?
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Reply 1
why dont you ask him out? 
Reply 2
Thats what I was thinking! Cos he's clearly not going to get round to it anytime soon!
Reply 3
Jolae
why dont you ask him out?
Pshh...it's the guy's job
Just talk to him the next chance you get and find out if he's interested in getting into a proper relationship with you or if it's just a bit of fun to him.
Reply 4
redef1ne
Pshh...it's the guy's job
my god, would hate to be a lesbian then
Reply 5
What the ****! Its definately not the guys job at all. Thats about as sexist as saying its a woman's job to do the laundry. If you want things to progress then initaite yourself. Maybe he wants to as well but doesnt know how to go about it, or he doesnt want to, but you're not going to find out by doing nothing.
miki_da_magpie
What the ****! Its definitely not the guys job at all. Thats about as sexist as saying its a woman's job to do the laundry. If you want things to progress then initaite yourself. Maybe he wants to as well but doesnt know how to go about it, or he doesnt want to, but you're not going to find out by doing nothing.
That's because it is their job to wash my clothes.
Chop chop.
Reply 7
Jolae
my god, would hate to be a lesbian then
Haha.
Maybe I just like to be chased
Reply 8
ask him out. Get it over with.
only gonna be lots of "could have beens" if u wait for the guy every time :P
only gonna be lots of "could have beens" if u wait for the guy every time :P
Reply 9
Ross H
ask him out. Get it over with.
only gonna be lots of "could have beens" if u wait for the guy every time :P
only gonna be lots of "could have beens" if u wait for the guy every time :P
/\ Best advice really.
Reply 10
always seems to be the guys job lol
Reply 11
Jolae
why dont you ask him out?
iwhy hold back kiss wait and see his reponse reactio...
Reply 12
might not sound interested after letting him full on kiss u a few times? well... theres words for girls like that.. lulz
Reply 13
Ross H
might not sound interested after letting him full on kiss u a few times? well... theres words for girls like that.. lulz
How can first base be the end-goal? It's pump and dump, not tongue and run.
Reply 14
Notepadmed
iwhy hold back kiss wait and see his reponse reactio...
whatever that means
Reply 15
Ross H
might not sound interested after letting him full on kiss u a few times? well... theres words for girls like that.. lulz
Dude, what are you , 8?
I think you need to pipe up OP, he may be too chicken to ask you himself. Or, maybe he's more interested in just the sex. Only way you'll know is to ask unfortunately. You'll only mess it up guessing too much
Reply 17
DodgyTrousers
Dude, what are you , 8?
whats ur point apart from trolling ?
Reply 18
Ross H
whats ur point apart from trolling ?
How the hell is he trolling? Please explain that idiot boy.
OP - If you've only kissed once and if that was in a club it might have just been a drunken thing. I kiss loads of folk I don't mean to when I'm drunk. When you guys chat loads, what do you talk about? How flirty is he?
And what happened the 2 times you saw him and he didn't kiss you? I don't see what stopped you from kissing him tbh.
Reply 19
Ross H
whats ur point apart from trolling ?
My point is that your attitude is juvenile. Since when did it make someone 'easy' if they kiss you early? In middle school maybe
Trolling is where you offer an opinion that will deliberately provoke a mass negative response by the way.
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