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I don't know what I want!?
Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 9 months and I still really want to be with her but I'm starting to feel like I'm missing out on things now, I miss pulling a different girl at every party, it was fun, but having a girl friend is great fun too, she is my best friend now. But over the past few months a few things have happened which have made me just want to be single. 2 of her best friends, I mean her actual best friends have come onto me. the first was a couple of months ago, a girl I really used to fancy at the start of yr 12 and we used to flirt all the time but then I ended up with my girlfriend, but she got upset with me a couple of months ago and blurted out how its unfair that we didn't end up together and how it was unfair I didn't make a move and just moved and blah blah blah and she tried to kiss me, but I said no, but this was mainly due to the fact that we would most definitely get caught. Also, last night my girlfriend's other best friend, who is super fit, this is really crude, but I really would like to bang her, I walked her home last night and she grabbed me and kissed me for like a sec but I pushed her away because she was drunk but she said she really wanted to and invited me to stay the night . It was very difficult to say no because she is so hot.
I just feel like I'm missing out, but I know I would really miss my girlfriend if I broke up with her. (btw I would just like to point out how girls are just as bad as boys, I mean my girlfriend's best friends, that's pretty harsh)
I just feel like I'm missing out, but I know I would really miss my girlfriend if I broke up with her. (btw I would just like to point out how girls are just as bad as boys, I mean my girlfriend's best friends, that's pretty harsh)
Reply 3
^ *Nods&agrees*.
Nice going - you are an arse.
If your missing out, and are actually doubting being with your girlfriend because you want to "bang" someone else.
End things with her - it's less cruel. *sigh*
I don't think she'd appreciate knowing your thoughts of "banging" others girls whilst she's all cuddly with you.
Eurg.
get a grip. your just greedy.
Nice going - you are an arse.
If your missing out, and are actually doubting being with your girlfriend because you want to "bang" someone else.
End things with her - it's less cruel. *sigh*
I don't think she'd appreciate knowing your thoughts of "banging" others girls whilst she's all cuddly with you.
Eurg.
get a grip. your just greedy.
Reply 4
Anonymous
Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 9 months and I still really want to be with her but I'm starting to feel like I'm missing out on things now, I miss pulling a different girl at every party, it was fun, but having a girl friend is great fun too, she is my best friend now. But over the past few months a few things have happened which have made me just want to be single. 2 of her best friends, I mean her actual best friends have come onto me. the first was a couple of months ago, a girl I really used to fancy at the start of yr 12 and we used to flirt all the time but then I ended up with my girlfriend, but she got upset with me a couple of months ago and blurted out how its unfair that we didn't end up together and how it was unfair I didn't make a move and just moved and blah blah blah and she tried to kiss me, but I said no, but this was mainly due to the fact that we would most definitely get caught. Also, last night my girlfriend's other best friend, who is super fit, this is really crude, but I really would like to bang her, I walked her home last night and she grabbed me and kissed me for like a sec but I pushed her away because she was drunk but she said she really wanted to and invited me to stay the night . It was very difficult to say no because she is so hot.
I just feel like I'm missing out, but I know I would really miss my girlfriend if I broke up with her. (btw I would just like to point out how girls are just as bad as boys, I mean my girlfriend's best friends, that's pretty harsh)
I just feel like I'm missing out, but I know I would really miss my girlfriend if I broke up with her. (btw I would just like to point out how girls are just as bad as boys, I mean my girlfriend's best friends, that's pretty harsh)
Are you going to marry the girl you're with? Probably not.
Do you think that you're being a particularly good boyfriend to her? Probably not.
Do you think that your chances of getting with a lot of other girls will be increased by being single? Probably.
Does your girlfriend want a good boyfriend and do you want to get with some hot girls whilst you're young? Probably.
Given the answers to the above questions, would you be better breaking things off with your current girlfriend? Probably.
Are you going to get a lot of girls telling you off on this thread? Probably.
Are you honest about how you feel? Yes.
Do girls want guys who are honest about their feelings? Probably.
Does the **** you'll get from girls on this thread amuse me therefore? Yeah.
Am I ever gonna stop asking these silly questions and then answering them? Probably.
When? Now.
Uh huh.
Reply 5
^ Hehe that tickled me so.
Break it off with your gf. Go have fun, be single, a tenner says you'll be wanting your gf back before long....
Sounds like she needs to get a better bf and a better set of mates!
Yeah, good luck with that one....
Break it off with your gf. Go have fun, be single, a tenner says you'll be wanting your gf back before long....
Sounds like she needs to get a better bf and a better set of mates!
Yeah, good luck with that one....
Reply 6
YOu sound like you are simply not ready for a committed relationship. Least end it with your girlfriend before you end up cheating on her, now that would be messy.
Reply 7
I'll say that you don't sound like a complete arse to me. A bit of an arse, but not to the degree others are saying.
I think you should be straight up honest with your girlfriend. Tell her that these other girls came onto you and that, while you pushed them away, you found it hard to do so. Let her decide if she's willing to risk being hurt by you. At least give her the satisfaction of being the one to end the relationship if she chooses to do so. And stay away from these girls!
I think you should be straight up honest with your girlfriend. Tell her that these other girls came onto you and that, while you pushed them away, you found it hard to do so. Let her decide if she's willing to risk being hurt by you. At least give her the satisfaction of being the one to end the relationship if she chooses to do so. And stay away from these girls!
Reply 8
Great best friends your girlfriend has was my obvious first thought after reading that.
I think it's time to end it with your girlfriend mate. Lots of guys, myself included, and probably girls too, find themselves becoming more attracted to and more tempted by these offers from other girls when they're sub-conciously losing their attraction to their current partner. The important thing is that you end it before you end up cheating on her cause no way does she deserve that.
was my obvious first thought after reading that.I think it's time to end it with your girlfriend mate. Lots of guys, myself included, and probably girls too, find themselves becoming more attracted to and more tempted by these offers from other girls when they're sub-conciously losing their attraction to their current partner. The important thing is that you end it before you end up cheating on her cause no way does she deserve that.
I can see why you chose to stay anonymous, OP!
I think you should break it off with your girlfriend and "sow your wild oats". Its what you clearly want to do. You said you would miss your girlfriend if you broke up. That's always natural but you can't let the fear of breaking up stop you from ending a relationship that, to be honest, doesn't look like it has much of a future anyway.
P.S. I'd advise you against telling that girl you want to "bang her" :s
I think you should break it off with your girlfriend and "sow your wild oats". Its what you clearly want to do. You said you would miss your girlfriend if you broke up. That's always natural but you can't let the fear of breaking up stop you from ending a relationship that, to be honest, doesn't look like it has much of a future anyway.
P.S. I'd advise you against telling that girl you want to "bang her" :s
Reply 10
i believe that if u really wanted to be with someone, u wouldn't really want anyone else. yeah u'll miss her, but i think ending it is probably the right thing to do, cos it's not fair on her that ur having thoughts u want to act upon like this.
Reply 11
OMG. She deserves better.
Even if you break up with your gf.. say you so much as kiss "best friend" #1, she will want you to be hers, she won't be happy with no commitment from you.
"Best friend" #2 seems to offer more non-commital sex but that's bound to cause a lot of stress with your current gf and ruin her friendship with #2.
It's all very well saying "I want this, that.. the other" but think about how it would actually pan out.
If you actually just want to be able to go to parties and collect STIs then dump your gf and go do it. But your gf's best friends are 100% out of bounds.
"Best friend" #2 seems to offer more non-commital sex but that's bound to cause a lot of stress with your current gf and ruin her friendship with #2.
It's all very well saying "I want this, that.. the other" but think about how it would actually pan out.
If you actually just want to be able to go to parties and collect STIs then dump your gf and go do it. But your gf's best friends are 100% out of bounds.
Reply 13
ditch your girl and live a little. you don't seem mature enough or ready for a steady goooooourlfriend
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