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gf talking to some guy who liked her

Just wanted to ask, how would you guys feel if your gf started getting chummy with a guy who used to like her. He's good looking (not one of those stupid dorks), funny and they seem to be getting on really well again.

Reply 1

username47781

20

It could mean anything, at the end of the day if she really wants to be with you they will remain nothing more than friends.

Reply 2

Bubblebee

15

I would think, hey I'm getting jealous quite quickly for someone with little reason to, perhaps I'm not mature enough to be in a relationship.

Reply 3

Hollijones

I know this is easier to say than do but...
you shouldn't worry if you can trust her 100% if you can't then you should talk to her about it maybe.
sure she means no harm though :smile:

i'd be paranoid if i was in oyur position though!

Reply 4

Rutter knows best!

12

i would'nt like it but there ain't much we can do about it.

Reply 5

Somewhat Damaged

"I would think, hey I'm getting jealous quite quickly for someone with little reason to, perhaps I'm not mature enough to be in a relationship."

I get jealous when my guy mentiones/texts/talks to any girl.
Especially one's he used to like.

As long as I don't let it get between us, then everythings okay.
Doesn't mean I'm not mature enough for a relationship.
Just means I nevereverever want to let him go. :p:

Reply 6

Bubblebee

15

Do you have any idea how irritating that is to read?
Changing your font/layout/colour - IT DOESN'T MAKE YOU COOL!

Reply 7

redef1ne

Abeille

I would think, hey I'm getting jealous quite quickly for someone with little reason to, perhaps I'm not mature enough to be in a relationship.

I disagree completely. Some people are just naturally jealous, whether it be through their own insecurities or a difficulty to trust people. It doesn't mean they're not mature enough to be in a relationship.

Reply 8

totalfussball

Abeille

Do you have any idea how irritating that is to read?
Changing your font/layout/colour - IT DOESN'T MAKE YOU COOL!

Neither does having an animated, headache inducing, avatar.

Reply 9

Livethefire

Abeille

Do you have any idea how irritating that is to read?
Changing your font/layout/colour - IT DOESN'T MAKE YOU COOL!

I agree with the person your directing that towards. However there is nothing wrong with changing the layout esp if its either just centred text or left aligned.

Its quite easy to read either way... whenever it is nicely spaced out like that too. I dont see the problem.

Reply 10

SmilerNuts

15

Abeille

Do you have any idea how irritating that is to read?
Changing your font/layout/colour - IT DOESN'T MAKE YOU COOL!

:dito:
Almost as bad as that n00b who used to post everything in font size 1.

redef1ne

I disagree completely. Some people are just naturally jealous, whether it be through their own insecurities or a difficulty to trust people. It doesn't mean they're not mature enough to be in a relationship.

No, but it does mean there's gonna be a lot of strain on the relationship from the start and unless they have a very understanding partner they're probably gonna drive a lot of people away.

Reply 11

candy_kiss

im in the same postion except its my boyfriend. he recently admited he had small feelings for this other girl and it hurt me a lot, but hes over it now, and so am i. instead of 'talking' to her about it, DO NOT DO THAT!! xD people have this sick part to them where they like to make there other half jealous, and if you start saying its making you jealous, itll only get worse, not because she likes him, just because its getting a reaction out of you. i suggest everytime she meets with him or speaks to him or whatever, you make yourself unaailable, in fact make yourself a bit unavailable for a while, i dont mean ignore her of coruse, just socialise a bit without her and make her a bit jealous. YESSS its immature, but it actually works when that person realises that your not always going to be there.

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

OP

Thanks everyone for your reassuring comments.
I guess jealousy is part and parcel of a relationship. Might talk to her soon, since I'm comfortable.

To the licky licky noob, grow up.

Reply 13

silverbolt

19

Anonymous

Thanks everyone for your reassuring comments.
I guess jealousy is part and parcel of a relationship. Might talk to her soon, since I'm comfortable.

To the licky licky noob, grow up.

ahh sweet irony

talking to a guy

hmmmm obviously it means that they are sleeping together, intend to get married have children and live out the rest of thier lives with the sole purpose of making your life a misery.

get a blooming grip

Reply 14

h82think

14

If you trust her, you'll realise she is with you and not him! RELAX!

Reply 15

RosiePosiePuddingAndPie

12

If you do talk to your girlfriend about it, make sure you approach it carefully. It would give her a legitimate reason to get pretty mardy with you!! I speak from experience - my boyfriend told me off (ok, ok, I exaggerate, but he did complain!! :p:

) about the fact that I talk about one of my male friends a bit, and he asked if I found them attractive, and it really really annoyed me!

Howeverrr... I do understand how you feel, cos I sometimes feel exactly the same. I don't mind him talking to girls, obviously, but sometimes they get so close, and girls flirt with him, and he doesn't realise!! But I trust him not to respond to their flirting, so it's ok. You've just gotta work around it! :smile:

And just tell yourself - she's with you, not him, for a reason :smile:

Reply 16

Chumbaniya

17

I would have absolutely no problem whatsoever if there what was going on was purely friendly. I'd get a little uncomfortable if it was clearly getting flirty, but I'd never be with a girl unless I thought I was the man she really wanted, so I don't worry.

gf talking to some guy who liked her

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