Please do not de-anon me as many of my friends go on this forum and this is a personal issue which i like to keep to myself but ask others for advice.
hi, I think i stress over every little things, this then leads me to not focus properly or do anything right. I am generally a stressed out person and even other people have said i stress to much. I find it really hard to cope with uni and other work and find that coz am doing law it is one of the hardest sucjects. I got too much reading to do and find that i never get it done due to me being stressed out all the time. I feel that its taking over my life and i cannot concentrate properly. Family problems also get in the way as my family expects too much of me to clean and tidy up and do the washing and that. I tell them i have work to do but they think i overdo it. I consider myself as thick sometimes as i can never understand anything properly it takes me ages to understand something or i have to keep going over it. I know am not dylexia or something as i did get full marks on spome of the modules in A levels i do not have a problem with spelling or handwriting. I really do not know what my problem is. I am quite inconfident and feel extremely shy around people and i think i tend to care what people think of me. And recently i notice if i have a opinion about something i tend to not say until someone says it as i think i will be wrong. I do want to be a good lawyer someday but i think this issue will get in my way i mean how can i fight peoples cases if i get stressed out myself and find it hard to cope. Some people think i tend to be hard on myself and i agree that most of my freinds think that as well but i really want to do good. I want to get good greades and even though i get ok grades i think they are not good enough. Please can you help me