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Can't stop pulling

So I've been at uni for, what, 2 months? And whenever I go out, I end up pulling someone, whether it's someone from my uni halls or someone I don't know. Would you class me as a slut? I don't get drunk, just sort of merry...so I can't really say it's alcohol induced. But still - I don't know why I keep doing it! All my friends say I'm getting a reputation as a total slag :frown:

would you say this is true?

Reply 1

20083

Sounds accurate.

Reply 2

~*JESS*~

not helpful!

Reply 3

ßlαcksωαn

Um how about you just stop?
Learn some control, doesn't sound that hard...

Reply 4

JC.

~*JESS*~

All my friends say I'm getting a reputation as a total slag would you say this is true?

Nessyfencer

Sounds accurate.

~*JESS*~

not helpful!

Talk about shoot the messanger!

Reputations are aquired for a reason. however, they may not neccesarily be 100% accurate.
Make of that what you will...

Reply 5

TSR Group Staff

What sort of help were you looking for?

If you are sleeping around everytime you go out, then yeah, I can see why they'd think of you like that... not that i'd ever call someone a slag, but what would be your definition of a slag?

Reply 6

JC.

<CJ>

what would be your definition of a slag?

The carbon deposits that build up when you're doing good welding! :biggrin:

*slinks back to the garage* :cool:

Reply 7

~*JESS*~

Am most definitely not sleeping around. That would be my definition I guess...

Reply 8

~*JESS*~

JC.

The carbon deposits that build up when you're doing good welding! :biggrin:

*slinks back to the garage* :cool:

PS. hehe.... :p:

Reply 9

Laevis

Maybe it would be better if you were to try and restrain yourself a little more so as to avoid 'earning' a reputation of being "easy".

Otherwise, guys will think you're easily attainable and they'll all be lining up to try their luck! Perhaps you should higher your standards too! If you're pulling every night you go out (and this has been the pattern for two months) then it's sort of fair for one to assume you end up going with anyone*. If you're that sought after you must be worth more, surely?

*This is not necessarily true, but helpful in this instance.

Reply 10

TSR Group Staff

JC.

The carbon deposits that build up when you're doing good welding! :biggrin:

*slinks back to the garage* :cool:

Bah, you engineering types :cool:

OP, enjoy yourself, do whatever you want to do, if you don't want to be thought of like that change...

Too early for me i'm off

Reply 11

~*JESS*~

Not every night for two months. I'd say about 7 guys in 2 months...

Reply 12

~*JESS*~

<CJ>

Bah, you engineering types :cool:

OP, enjoy yourself, do whatever you want to do, if you don't want to be thought of like that change...

Too early for me i'm off

yay i like that answer

k off to sleep, night all :smile:

xxx

Reply 13

Laevis

~*JESS*~

Not every night for two months. I'd say about 7 guys in 2 months...

I said every night you go out :p:

Only been out 7 nights in 8 weeks? :lies:

But seriously, it's up to you. I don't want to actively discourage it, but really ask you to think about what you're doing. 7 different guys not only earns you a reputation you don't want, but you might get used to it and find it difficult to change later on.

Think more highly of yourself, and make yourself harder to get. Make the guys work for their reward :p: