I feel so lonely...

Hi there...

I'm currently taking a year off, so I'm neither at school nor at university. What I might call my "friends" are basically just acquaintances, people whom I meet frequently, with whom I have fun, but with whom I don't share any kind of more profound relationship. I don't have a best friend. I don't have a girlfriend and have actually only had "affairs", nothing on long-term (ie more than 1 month). I just feel so lonely, I simply realise that theres no one who really cares about me (well,my family does, but thats another thing, you understand...). At the moment I occasionally meet people, we go out, meet for a drink, but I didn't have a nice evening for a couple of months now...
I just don^t know how I should meet people who are truly interested in me (although I am generally a very outgoing person).

Anyway...thanks for reading my self-pitying lines.
cheers

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

anyone plz :redface:

Reply 2

Grey Area

Cheer up, you never know when you might meet someone you connect with, as long as you don't spend your whole life indoors it's bound to happen.

Reply 3

Overground

Try to turn some of those acquaintances into friends.

Reply 4

Lara C.

i know what you mean fella. unfortunately i cant give you any advice as im in the same ditch if you get me lol. however my plan is to work on my appearence and personality enough so that i am confident enough in myself to ask this girl out which ive noticed and quite like :biggrin:

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

You know, it's not that I was literally lonely. If I want I can see my "friends". What I lack are people with whom I could share my experience as a human being (highly philosophical :wink:

sorry), my passions. Awm...I don't know. It's just a sort of crisis Im going through.
All I want are good friends, who are not superficial, who care as much about me as I do (and I DO care about others). :s-smilie: