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    How do you know when someone fancies you?

    The Surgery’s Summer of Sex series starts with a look at attraction and dating. We’ve got advice from Youtuber Hannah Witton and we want to hear from you.

    What qualities do you find attractive?

    What’s the best way to ask your crush out?

    What’s the secret to a great first date?

    Join Katie and Dr Radha on Radio 1 at 9pm on Wednesday 21st June for help and advice on getting that guy or girl.

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    Attractive: good qualities, love of quizzing

    Unattractive: bad qualities

    Successful first date - don't do something boring that makes it awkward, e.g. Dining out or going to the cinema.
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    Being sexual around you, want to talk to you, being awkward when your in the room, say awkward stuff, high emotional intelligence helps me a lottt, I'm gay but its normal for me to get almost all gay/bisexual people acting all flirty around me.
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    Ffs most of the time I'm so oblivious to someone flirting with me that my friends later say to me "he was flirting with you" :rofl:
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    When they send nudes
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    When they want to run through a field of wheat with you
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    Asking relationship advice from people on TSR is like asking a giraffe to fly. You won't get anywhere since no one has a clue.
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    (Original post by BBC Radio 1)
    How do you know when someone fancies you?

    The Surgery’s Summer of Sex series starts with a look at attraction and dating. We’ve got advice from Youtuber Hannah Witton and we want to hear from you.

    What qualities do you find attractive?

    What’s the best way to ask your crush out?

    What’s the secret to a great first date?

    Join Katie and Dr Radha on Radio 1 at 9pm on Wednesday 21st June for help and advice on getting that guy or girl.

    Please note: you can post on this forum anonymously.
    well the fact that he always hung out with me and didn't get bored... also when he found a picture of me and my fave singer on fb, and my brother joked 'oh it's her boyfriend' and that clearly upset him because he replied with 'shall I just go home now'. also it was always easy meeting up with him because he lives really nearby, and we both have dogs that need walking in the local park
    he asked me out over facebook, just because we hadn't seen eachother in a while, also we were/are really awkward irl.
    secret to a great first date; just be yourself, it will be even more awkward if you're not...
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    (Original post by BBC Radio 1)
    How do you know when someone fancies you?

    The Surgery’s Summer of Sex series starts with a look at attraction and dating. We’ve got advice from Youtuber Hannah Witton and we want to hear from you.

    What qualities do you find attractive?

    What’s the best way to ask your crush out?

    What’s the secret to a great first date?

    Join Katie and Dr Radha on Radio 1 at 9pm on Wednesday 21st June for help and advice on getting that guy or girl.

    Please note: you can post on this forum anonymously.
    Well, I know when they don't fancy me. All I have to do is determine whether I am awake or not.
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    What qualities do you find attractive?

    Similar sense of humour, maybe a little weird (because I sure as hell am), good moral compass, someone I feel comfortable to be myself around.

    What’s the best way to ask your crush out?

    Just come out and do it, what's the worst that can happen? They say no thanks? pff

    What’s the secret to a great first date?

    Don't do anything that'll put you in an awkward position, if you're not confident you can keep a conversation going, do something that's active, so the focus isn't entirely on yourself (as it would be if you went out for dinner).
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    Apparently when they put their arm around you, try to make jokes and taunt you...

    But I am a very small person so it's quite easy to use me as an arm rest
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    I drunk called my crush and thats how I told him!
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    the douchebag never replied and his group made fun of me every day for a year bc of it ffs Ive never witnessed such a prick in my life
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    In my experience they tend to (males only)

    -Talk about themselves a lot
    -Try and make you laugh
    -Try and talk to you a lot
    -Start grooming themselves if they see you and hold eye contact with you for a noticeably long time

    (Obviously) ask you out
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    Qualities :Physically I like extremely tall men on the nerdy spectrum. Glasses are a must. Mentally: Have to be interesting and funny. Even if they don't mean to be funny!

    The best way to ask somebody out is in person. Even if the relationship doesn't work out you end up with a lovely memory of a nice moment. The best parts of life are made up of these moments. We're missing out on them if they're all done via snapchat.

    Best first dates don't even look like dates. They're just people hanging out doing stuff they enjoy.
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    1. That's easy. No sane person can possibly fancy me, so I can easily tell that noone ever fancies me.
    2. Not to humiliate me, or better yet, if someone gives me a break.
    3. Just being polite.
    4. Not to have one or if failing stay away from that dissapointing temptation, at least not to meet anyone with one of those agressive mental disorders, that leave wounds in minds of everyone around.
 
 
 
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