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Jealousy isn't quite the word... Should I feel this way?

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Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while and our sex life is alright. However, if I don't see her or I'm not with her then she tends to 'satisfy' her needs. This is a few times a day as well, which makes me feel sort of obselete, or not 'good' enough. I've metioned this before and it ends up in a joke. Is it normal? And how should I be feeling?

Thanks.

Reply 1

Tyler Durden

Dude, who cares? It couldn't be more normal. To be honest I see that as a good quality in a girl! Send her dirty texts telling her the stuff you're gonna do to her next time you see her etc. Do you never whack off between sex sessions?

Reply 2

Profesh

No. Of course not.

Reply 3

suzie_h

Well when you're not seeing her she still has needs, i wouldn't be worried about it.

Reply 4

Sausage

I bet you do it, so why is it different for her to do it?

And yeah how you're feeling isnt normal.

Reply 5

blue bubbles

Well I dont really blame your for feeling um unwanted, but well I dont see the problem really. Maybe talk to her one more time and like try to tell her more seriously.
Hope it wokrs : P

Reply 6

Anonymous #2

Not sure why girls are telling him how he feels isn't normal, gender gap? Intellectually i can agree with everyones replies but I'd probably have the same reaction, so yeah , I'd say how you're feeling is normal

Reply 7

Dream_Catcher

There's nothing wrong with it. Ok without going into too much detail u have a ******ING amazing sex life ( not to brag or nout :p:

) and also I spend a LOT of time with my boyfriend. But for some reason I'm always ahem, playing with myself. It's not because he doesn't satify me mainly because it relaxes me. Although there have been times when we're watching tv and I suddenly realise my hand is down there. Called me obessed but I don't see a problem with it.

Reply 8

RosiePosiePuddingAndPie

It's not normal to feel like that, but it's not abnormal either. :smile:

I don't like it when my boyfriend beats one off soon before he sees me, because then he's not interested in what I have to offer :p:

But if I don't see him for a couple of days, it's perfectly normal for him to get certain needs. I get the same needs too :wink:

We like to make a thing of it sometimes, talk over msn a bit first, send the odd dirty text.

She's not trying to make you obselete. If that was the problem, she'd be doing it herself when you were together!! Try not to feel so bad about it :smile:

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