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    A guy I was dating was a commitment phobe so I broke it off with him very soon after realising. (We hadn't done anything sexual yet). He was upset but he understood why we had to stop seeing each other. The thing is he has contact me few months later asking me random questions like what I did in my day and what my plans are for the future etc. He also tells me stuff about himself. Now I don't understand why he's talking to me. I've only just gotten over him and now he's back. I've tried giving him dead replies but he carries on talking to me. He also appears to have missed me from some of the things he said. What do I do about him, I'm honestly lost and starting to become hopeful but I know I shouldn't... any advice?
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    Reminds me of a little someone Xopher_
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    Move on...Don't repeat the same mistake twice. You can find someone better who will actually take you seriously
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    Move on...Don't repeat the same mistake twice. You can find someone better who will actually take you seriously
    I know. It's just I really liked him but it took me all this time to get over him and now he's back and that hurts.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    A guy I was dating was a commitment phobe so I broke it off with him very soon after realising. (We hadn't done anything sexual yet). He was upset but he understood why we had to stop seeing each other. The thing is he has contact me few months later asking me random questions like what I did in my day and what my plans are for the future etc. He also tells me stuff about himself. Now I don't understand why he's talking to me. I've only just gotten over him and now he's back. I've tried giving him dead replies but he carries on talking to me. He also appears to have missed me from some of the things he said. What do I do about him, I'm honestly lost and starting to become hopeful but I know I shouldn't... any advice?
    Do the right thing and say you're not interested. Stop wasting his time by giving vague replies and he'll go away. It's honestly so stupid when girls do this. Do you like being persued or something? You lost feelings for him and you will again. Just say you're not interested unless you want to make it work (which you already stated can't happen)
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    I know. It's just I really liked him but it took me all this time to get over him and now he's back and that hurts.
    Trust me hun . It's easy for a boy to just walk in and out of our lives as they please. Makes no difference to them. We only have ourselves to gaurd. You know the pain already, it's just not worth it...
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    (Original post by butfirst_coffee)
    Reminds me of a little someone Xopher_
    Hey I'm not little and I love you still whether you can be in my arms or not
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    (Original post by butfirst_coffee)
    Trust me hun . It's easy for a boy to just walk in and out of our lives as they please. Makes no difference to them. We only have ourselves to gaurd. You know the pain already, it's just not worth it...
    Okay I'm going to ignore him from now. You are deffos right the pain isn't worth it.
 
 
 
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