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    I met a young woman of the age of 19 on Thursday. I am 24.
    We both live in London. We're going to meet in 2-3 weeks.
    Due to something personal, she wants to us not to rush things, she wants us to take things slow.
    I do too.
    What does that mean though?
    Am I not allowed to ask her to be my girlfriend when we meet?

    I asked her and she doesn't exactly have any examples.
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      (Original post by MLPfourever)
      I met a young woman of the age of 19 on Thursday. I am 24.
      We both live in London. We're going to meet in 2-3 weeks.
      Due to something personal, she wants to us not to rush things, she wants us to take things slow.
      I do too.
      What does that mean though?
      Am I not allowed to ask her to be my girlfriend when we meet?

      I asked her and she doesn't exactly have any examples.
      i think u know what it means
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      (Original post by MLPfourever)
      Am I not allowed to ask her to be my girlfriend when we meet?
      That's probably what she means by not rushing things. Don't ask her just yet. Take things slowly.
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      (Original post by Tiger Rag)
      That's probably what she means by not rushing things. Don't ask her just yet. Take things slowly.
      I wasn't planning on asking her. I was just wondering.
      I asked her if there was anything that she doesn't want me to do and she said there isn't anything and I should just be myself.

      I don't really know what to do as she'll be my first real girlfriend.
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      (Original post by tamil fever)
      i think u know what it means
      lolol
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      err how did you two meet?
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      Asking a girl you only met 4 days ago to be your girlfriend is rushing things. Don't do anything drastic.
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      My little pony forever?
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      When you have sex, you're allowed only one pump per second and must last a minimum of 5 minutes before ejaculating.
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      Just spend time getting to know her
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      I'd say just make sure you've had a good few dates just getting to know each other before maybe kissing / making anything official or anything like that


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