my close friend is going abroad for a year, and is having a leaving party in a few weeks' time.
The problem is, i am going on holiday with my family the following morning and we are leaving at 3am. We have a 6-hour drive to the airport then a 5-hour flight, so I'd like to sleep a bit beforehand.
I'll be going to hers to stay for a few days as well just before she goes, and after that I won't see her for around 9-10 months.
I told her that as a result I'd have to leave her leaving 'do at about 11pm to get a bit of sleep and make sure i was ready before going.
She said that i should leave at the last minute possible in order toget back to mine for 3am and that as it was our last night out, we need to make the most of it and that I could take a taxi back at half 2 (costing me £25)
She said she's worth doing an all-nighter for. I understand but I think she needs to realise I've got a long day ahead of me; I can't just walk through the door grab my suitcase and go out again.
do you think I'm being unreasonable or she is? Thanks