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Travelling with partner....

lucasharrison

2

Good or bad idea?

Meant to be off to NZ with girlfriend of 3 years for 5 or 6 months in Jan....

Reply 1

cheerios

i would like to know this also ! thinking of travelling with long term friend that has recently turned into bf. sorry for crashing your thread!

Reply 2

h82think

14

Before deciding, try living together for a few weeks and see if you can stand eachother.

Reply 3

cheerios

lived with him for a month with him but as friends. how different do you think that is?

Reply 4

Unregistered

Hmmmmm, trickyyyyyyy.

I guess it's make or break time but I cannae see why it wouldn't work if you're happy right now.

Reply 5

silverbolt

19

its a make or break thing i think.

A friend i knew once said that the best way to kill a relationship is to go on holiday with them - it worked for him

Reply 6

Meep!

9

It can be the best thing ever, my bf comes with me wherever I go on holiday, and it's brilliant, however, he does live with me during uni holidays, so it's not very different to what we do normally... just with a little more sun/snow etc.

Reply 7

Zoecb

11

Sounds amazing!

Reply 8

mangomaz

14

If it goes well, you're ready to get married.

Reply 9

randomgirl

14

You'll be fine.

Just make sure you give eachother space from time to time!

Reply 10

qubog

12

Holidays with your partner are great! Think of the memories you'll have :smile:

Reply 11

FyreFight

14

I'd really suggest you think hard about this before you do. Me and my ex booked to go travelling in Thailand for a month, then we broke up before going. It ended up being me + her + her new bf (awkwaaard).

I still have the scars on my arm from when she had her hips leaning onto my chair on the plane when she was sleeping, and I elbowed her to get her out of my area and she dug her nails into me as hard as she could in retaliation.

Reply 12

Meep!

9

NSiky

I'd really suggest you think hard about this before you do. Me and my ex booked to go travelling in Thailand for a month, then we broke up before going. It ended up being me + her + her new bf (awkwaaard).

You went on holiday with your ex and her new bf?! :eek:

I just would not be able to cope with something like that.

Why didn't you just sell him your ticket?

Reply 13

FyreFight

14

Meep!

You went on holiday with your ex and her new bf?! :eek:

I just would not be able to cope with something like that.

Why didn't you just sell him your ticket?

It was non-transferrable. :frown:

I just tried as hard as I could to do my own thing and not intrude on their space. Luckily I found some girls from Sheffield who I got on fairly well with, so I stuck with them instead.

The low point of the trip was hearing them have sex one night while I was trying to read.

Reply 14

Meep!

9

NSiky

It was non-transferrable. :frown:

I just tried as hard as I could to do my own thing and not intrude on their space. Luckily I found some girls from Sheffield who I got on fairly well with, so I stuck with them instead.

The low point of the trip was hearing them have sex one night while I was trying to read.