me again lol

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OK, another classic example of the ambiguity i have to suffer from girls due to my disability. Spent the night with a hotty in a club at uni, shes just come out of a relationship. She gave me a lot of attention and i sort of fancied her more than i thought i could value her as a friend. We drunkenly traded numbers and she said quite persistantly she wants to make me a meal on friday, whether she will or not is another matter! Do i just wait for the text, or is a 'hey, still up for the meal?' come tonight or tomorrow morning ok?? She wanted to make an evening out of it, so i want to know whether to make other plans or not!

She was way hot. l just hate these situations coz i don't know if they are just being sympathetic!

Reply 1

ßlαcksωαn

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dont ask about the meal

just say hi....

Reply 2

nanananabatman

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Being sympathetic....hahaha.

Trust me, I wouldn't date someone out of sympathy, I simply wouldn't even waste my time.

Reply 3

Eccentric Man

OP

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nanananabatman

Being sympathetic....hahaha.

Trust me, I wouldn't date someone out of sympathy, I simply wouldn't even waste my time.

no, thats the question,was it a 'date proposal' or just drunkenly being nice to the disabled guy??

Reply 4

white_haired_wizard

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Eccentric Man

no, thats the question,was it a 'date proposal' or just drunkenly being nice to the disabled guy??

she offered to make you a meal? It's not like she's offered you to go to her room and have a few drinks...

Just play it cool, suss it out on the next occasion you're with her? Suss out her body language towards her, the setting to the meal, i.e. if some candles are lit, you're on your way there....unless she's generally into candles... :rolleyes:

Play it cool, don't go flirting away....you could end up with egg on your face.

Reply 5

DOJO

Eccentric Man

OK, another classic example of the ambiguity i have to suffer from girls due to my disability. Spent the night with a hotty in a club at uni, shes just come out of a relationship. She gave me a lot of attention and i sort of fancied her more than i thought i could value her as a friend. We drunkenly traded numbers and she said quite persistantly she wants to make me a meal on friday, whether she will or not is another matter! Do i just wait for the text, or is a 'hey, still up for the meal?' come tonight or tomorrow morning ok?? She wanted to make an evening out of it, so i want to know whether to make other plans or not!

She was way hot. l just hate these situations coz i don't know if they are just being sympathetic!

If she flakes on you - she flakes on you. I won't lie to you and say that you will get your meal on friday, there is a chance that you won't especially if she was drunk. If she was a randomer, again unlikely. I would probably phone her (....and not text her) and ask her about the meal. If she flakes - move on.

me again lol

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