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I want a girlfreind badly

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But I really don't know how to go about it lol. She's not in any of my classes and I rarely see here but we seem to be doing the old look at each other look away thing. step by step, go for it and ill obey, thanks.

Reply 1

shenzys

17

Do you know what? Its never going to happen if you're looking for it. The girl will come to you. Just be patient and don't expect anything, that's the only way something will happen. Psht, I should take my own advice!

Reply 2

ph9

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^ that's not true because then nothing would ever happen between anyone would it...

go talk to her op. that's all i can say, no magical potion that'll compel her to walk over to you and talk i'm afraid

Reply 3

chidona

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FM08

But I really don't know how to go about it lol. She's not in any of my classes and I rarely see here but we seem to be doing the old look at each other look away thing. step by step, go for it and ill obey, thanks.

I really wouldn't put too much weight on the whole "look at each other look away" thing you describe - it doesn't mean she wants to get with you, more likely it suggests that you drew her attention briefly.

And, I have to disagree with shenzy on this one - if you really want to go out with her, suck it up and go and ask her to go on a date with you. It might be a bit weird, seeing as you 'rarely' see each other, but you don't have anything to lose, do you? Best of luck man, whatever you decide to do.

Reply 4

jointhedots

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shenzys

Do you know what? Its never going to happen if you're looking for it. The girl will come to you. Just be patient and don't expect anything, that's the only way something will happen. Psht, I should take my own advice!

Someone has to make the first move :s-smilie:

Really though if someone I'd never even spoken to before came out to me and asked me on a date I'd be put off. It's a bit desparate. You need to find a way of getting to talk to her without making it too obvious but if you don't have mutual friends, I don't know how that's going to happen...

Reply 5

FM08

OP

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I'm fedop of waiting and not looking for one, i dont believe in that. it's just that i have never spoken to her i just see her standing there with like 1 mate and to just stop myself and talk to her comes across as really desperate. i kno wthese are the sort of challenges i'll have to face if i want one but at the same time there are certain times when it's very desperate kind of. i just wish i had the confidence.

Reply 6

Iago

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shenzys

Do you know what? Its never going to happen if you're looking for it. The girl will come to you. Just be patient and don't expect anything, that's the only way something will happen. Psht, I should take my own advice!

That is the opposite of the truth.

Reply 7

jointhedots

16

FM08

I'm fedop of waiting and not looking for one, i dont believe in that. it's just that i have never spoken to her i just see her standing there with like 1 mate and to just stop myself and talk to her comes across as really desperate. i kno wthese are the sort of challenges i'll have to face if i want one but at the same time there are certain times when it's very desperate kind of. i just wish i had the confidence.

A girlfriend isn't an accessory, if you go out with the express aim of 'looking for one' you will more than likely come across as desparate (which i can't spell). Just get out, meet new people whenever you can, and see what develops. You do need to make an effort but no one likes a guy who's clearly just after girls - it's fair enough if you're looking for a one night stand, but if you start hanging onto girls in the hope that they'll be your new girlfriend, you're going to be dissappointed.

And don't fixate yourself on this girl just because she's looked at you a few times...

Reply 8

FM08

OP

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no i wont lol

Reply 9

Oldmannow

18

stop playing Football Manager.

Reply 10

sunspoon

14

abrp

stop playing Football Manager.

To be fair it is quite an addictive game. And it's harder to win in it than in FM 07 so yuo need to play a bit more to get the hang of it :smile:

Reply 11

sarcasticallysincere

Seriously have you considered confidence classes because to be honest very few girls will find a guy who has no self confidence attractive. Girls like confidence.
I am sorry if that sounds brutal or whatever

Reply 12

FM08

OP

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haha! no nay never!

i'd love to meet new people but people don't seem to realise that some of us have some confidence issues and it's not always so easy for me personally.

confidence classes? blime that's a new one. i go counselling but that's it.

Reply 13

veggie4life

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loose the desperation theres no bigger turn off than someone whos desperate. Be casual ! Good luck :smile:

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

Jonah Ramone

Stop going online, get yourself out the house and hey presto, you might meet someone?

On the other hand there are some people who find bfs and gfs through online dating. So it works both ways.

Reply 15

Thud

17

You could construct one? Paper mache might work? Failing that, I hear shipping of Japanese products is very affordable... :wink:

Reply 16

TOD100

FM08

But I really don't know how to go about it lol. She's not in any of my classes and I rarely see here but we seem to be doing the old look at each other look away thing. step by step, go for it and ill obey, thanks.

Is your face covered in spots? Why does she look away?

Reply 17

TOD100

Jonah Ramone

Yeah I know. But not by moaning about it. And it's less common. And i doesn't work out as often.

says who? prove it.

Reply 18

Anonymous #1

Jonah Ramone

Yeah I know. But not by moaning about it. And it's less common. And i doesn't work out as often.

I did have a relationship through chatting online and well I guess you're right cos it only lasted a couple of months, but I have heard some people being together for a long time after meeting online.

Reply 19

Miyavi

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shenzys

Do you know what? Its never going to happen if you're looking for it. The girl will come to you. Just be patient and don't expect anything, that's the only way something will happen. Psht, I should take my own advice!

That's crappie crap!

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