The Student Room Group

Reply 1

ah well, anon didn't work. **** it.

Reply 2

First of all, you're not a failure. You have a job, friends and you're young enough to make life whatever you want it to be. You're only 20, why would you want to be in a serious relationship so early on in your life. If it's human contact that you want, then go out with your friends, have a good time, flirt with people. You dont need to have a one night stand with any person that you meet. Take time to build up a relationship with someone as friends, and it could turn into something more. Dont worry, your life will be ok. Hope i could help x

Reply 3

Youre definitely not a failure, ok?

You're only 20, think about that, you're only, what, 4 or 3 years into being a man? Well actually, a young man :smile: Thats hardly any time when you think about it of having proper relationships and really connecting with someone. I'm 20 also (nearly 21), and I've never been in a serious relationship thats lasted long, not that I havent tried, it just never works out when it comes to it. Like you. If things didnt work with anyone in the past, then they werent the ones! You'll meet lots (and i mean LOTS) more women, each of them a new opportunity :smile:

Try not to worry about the future, things that may or may not happen, worrying changes nothing anyway. Go out more, take time to meet people and make new friends instead of having one night stands. There are loads of lovely ladies out there waiting to meet you.

A nice smiling, warm, happy face would be a good start too :smile: