Is this a purely fwb relationship?

Yes. He's not interested in committing to you.

Well if he says that, then it sounds like a fwb situation, why don't you ask him in a subtle way perhaps?

Okay guys I guess I'll just have to move on, I'm really depressed because I thought we were more

Okay guys I guess I'll just have to move on, I'm really depressed because I thought we were more

We kiss and cuddle. Have sex. Go out on dates. Talk all day long on the phone. Yet he says we aren't together? Then why does he do those things with me?

He's having his cake and eating it ?

He loves being with you but he doesn't love you and he's afraid to commit to you
, if you really want him to be yours then talk to him and stop letting him use you like this.

You are capable of so much better

If you need to talk PM me?

You poor girl. The guy is using you and is pretty much manipulating you into feeling like it's something more serious.

I am so sorry that you had to hear this, its just a shame that people even do fwb! What happened to romantic sex and relationship?

Yeah I sympathise with your situation... I know it really sucks when you feel a certain way about it but the feeling isn't mutual with the other person.... some guys are just douchebags, it happens.

You'll find a better guy soon who'll want something more serious, dw

I feel so used. I wanted to marry him. I wanted to have his kids and get a house together.

how long have you been seeing him?

Not long. I was friends with him and I guess we started getting more intimate.

yeah but how long were you being intimate with then....? Like in your mind how long were you 'together'? Weeks, months? Because you were talking about marriage and ****.....

does he class it as "seeing eachother"?? If not then no he's completely using you for sex and someone when he's lonely. Chances are he's talking to multiple girls and doesn't want to stop hence why he doesn't want to label you two as a relationship!


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We've been together for 2 months. I know it's not a long time but I fall in love easily.


Yeah he says we're seeing each other. I guess he's just young and immature but I'm in love.

yeahl ngl if you're already thinking about marriage and stuff after 2 months.... idk... try not to get attached so easily? But that's easier said than done, you can't exactly control your emotions, they're emotions for a reason....

I know it'll be difficult but you gotta find a way to control your emotions. Try taking your mind off the situation by finding other things to do. Find a hobby, go out with friends, join a club and make friends. Don't let your emotions control you - you control your emotions.

Thank you. Yeah I know it's just that I fall in love and just think about marrying that person and having kids with them. I don't know why I do but it just happens. I wish I could shut my emotions out. I'll try and distract myself I guess.