Noisy floormate...

I'm at uni, in residence and the girl in the room beside me is starting to annoy me. Basically she goes out pretty much every night and pulls, and brings them back to her room. I dont mind if she does this really, but the problem is that she is very loud... when she comes back with a guy. Its starting to get really annoying especially because I have to get up early for lectures, and dont like being woken up in the middle of the night. Its also very hard to get back to sleep. Anyways, I'm not really sure how to approach her and talk about the situation, with out sounding like a pervert!!! :biggrin:

Any advice would be helpful, thank you.

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Reply 1

strawberrykisses123

haha my neighbour (who ended up bein one of my best mates at uni) said to me once "So, er, sounds like you, er, had a great time last night then eh?" and I very embarassedly asked "Oh you heard me...?" and from then on I learnt to shut up. *blush*

Reply 2

street

give her a lecture on how many sti's she probably has

Reply 3

username47781

Suppose somehow you got to tell her she's keeping you awake every night with her noise.

Reply 4

ASprinkleOfPixieDust

strawberrykisses123

That may be enough but if she's bringing a different bloke back every night she doesn't really sound very shy. Just tell her you don't have a problem with her bringing people back (only if you really don't though) but could she try to keep it down a bit as you're trying to sleep and also that it makes you a bit uncomfortable.

Just to add that if she's bringing strangers into your home make sure you don't leave valuables in any communal areas, I know of somebody who got ripped off by a guy she brought back-stole her purse!

Reply 5

lifeispie

Urm tell her the whole block can hear her? And show her to the nearest GUM clinic.

Reply 6

username47781

I just hope she's using condoms with her track record.

Reply 7

Trigger

I would leave a note/ post a note through the door telling her that her bedroom antics are keeping you up at night. Means you both save face.

Reply 8

FoeGeddaBowDeet

Become her boyfriend and tell her you like it best when you stuff a bandana in her mouth?

Reply 9

username47781

And keep it anonymous the letter

Reply 10

strawberrykisses123

letter thing may not work if it's anonymous - that's not the nicest thing to do so she may just get worse out of spite!

Reply 11

Tut.exe

wat she makes too much noise when she have sex? buy her drink, then you make her sound too... i think that pays off

Reply 12

idiot

Leaving people little notes like this is a terrible passive-aggressive habit that you probably shouldn't get into.

Reply 13

Strictly Business

Bring someone else back and make twice as much noise?

Reply 14

Trigger

strawberrykisses123

letter thing may not work if it's anonymous - that's not the nicest thing to do so she may just get worse out of spite!

It doesnt have to be harsh, it can be a nice letter.

Reply 15

sparkler

put a note under/on her door pretending to be someone else saying that you can hear her down the other end of the corridor. heck, put a few under there with different handwriting.

Reply 16

jointhedots

Rock Fan

I just hope she's using condoms with her track record.

I'm sure she appreciates your concern.

I wouldn't leave a note, personally...It's not a good habit to get into with people you live with and it can be really hard to get the tone of it right so it doesn't sound bitchy. Plus if you ask her personally she'll probably be more embarrassed/more likely to stop.

Reply 17

lifeispie

whats wrong with leaving notes? :s-smilie:

Reply 18

Trigger

Nothing

Reply 19

jointhedots

carouselsky

whats wrong with leaving notes? :s-smilie:

I just think it isn't a good habit to get into. Like I said it can be hard to judge the tone and they often come across as bitchy, albeit unintentionally. You need to try and stay on civil terms with your flatmates even if you aren't friends and not being straight with each other makes it harder.

Things often get sorted a lot quicker if you just talk to the person concerned as well, and there's less room to ignore someone asking you a direct question.