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mojitogirl
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Honestly everyone BUT the boys I'm ever I'm beautiful ( which of course makes me think I'm not) I'll walk into a restaurant and a random person will come up to me and be like ' you're so beautiful' I've been on a plane and the flight attendants comment on how I'm ' pretty' etc. When these people tell me, it makes me feel more confident but then I realise that no boy has actually ever commented on my looks. In fact, in clubs i always see them getting with other girls. They'll look at me up and down but won't do anything. Now, I'm not a virgin but the people I always fancy are on a rebound or something, and then I look up there ex on in Instagram and they're very average looking. Even when I go clubbing, If a boy DOES try to kiss me I push him away because I'm SICK of boys trying to get a sexual benefit from a girl without thinking they can take them on a date. I want to become a lesbian. I'm 18 and yes it's desperate but I'm really longing for someone I'm interested in to just love me. I want to be taken to Venice and go on a gondola. I'm going to uni in September and I already know I'm not going to find ' the one' I'm going to Uni up North and I literally only fancy boys from South Buckinghamshire which is where I'm from
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(Original post by mojitogirl)
Honestly everyone BUT the boys I'm ever I'm beautiful ( which of course makes me think I'm not) I'll walk into a restaurant and a random person will come up to me and be like ' you're so beautiful' I've been on a plane and the flight attendants comment on how I'm ' pretty' etc. When these people tell me, it makes me feel more confident but then I realise that no boy has actually ever commented on my looks. In fact, in clubs i always see them getting with other girls. They'll look at me up and down but won't do anything. Now, I'm not a virgin but the people I always fancy are on a rebound or something, and then I look up there ex on in Instagram and they're very average looking. Even when I go clubbing, If a boy DOES try to kiss me I push him away because I'm SICK of boys trying to get a sexual benefit from a girl without thinking they can take them on a date. I want to become a lesbian. I'm 18 and yes it's desperate but I'm really longing for someone I'm interested in to just love me. I want to be taken to Venice and go on a gondola. I'm going to uni in September and I already know I'm not going to find ' the one' I'm going to Uni up North and I literally only fancy boys from South Buckinghamshire which is where I'm from
Why rush? I think you're just waiting for the right person and are not after hookups/ONS, right? I think be comfortable with the situation and don't worry, you'll meet loads of guys at uni.
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agreed plus someon ecould like u hun just they need to wait to ask u they are hiding under a shell plus make ur move ask someone be brave if they dont come to u. u go to them simple as xxx
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Why rush? I think you're just waiting for the right person and are not after hookups/ONS, right? I think be comfortable with the situation and don't worry, you'll meet loads of guys at uni.
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Because you said that you are a homosexual lesbian?
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When will TSR decide to auto lock threads that have received no comments for a month let alone a year...
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