Can someone help, what to wear to a wedding?

Just wear what you feel comfortable in, at the end of the day nobody's really going to be looking at you anyway, nobody will care.

im a tomboy i dont have any dresses and dont know what to wear. Black leggings are the smartest things i have. The wedding involves a boat ride then a meal or something like that. Id rather not wear a dress but i will if i have to i was thinking of leggings with a smart top but is this too casual. I just wondered if anyone advise, thanks.

just wear what you feel comfortable in, at the end of the day nobody's really going to be looking at you anyway, nobody will care.

what?


what?

Im a tomboy i dont have any dresses and dont know what to wear. Black leggings are the smartest things I have. The wedding involves a boat ride then a meal or something like that. Id rather not wear a dress but i will if i have to i was thinking of leggings with a smart top but is this too casual. I just wondered if anyone advise, thanks.

I meant comfortable enough but doesn't look too out of place, not just anything. The OP says they were thinking about wearing leggings and a smart top, that will be fine. Nobody is really going to be looking at or caring about one of the hundreds of guests at someone's wedding, it's not about them.

It's not nice to wear leggings at a wedding, it just looks like you put no effort in and you wouldn't want that. If a dress makes you uncomfortable.... maybe a suit?

It's a ceremony and you should dress accordingly. I'd be extremely offended, though none of my guests would consider the idea of wearing leggings.

It's a ceremony and you should dress accordingly. I'd be extremely offended, though none of my guests would consider the idea of wearing leggings.

well it takes more effort to put on leggings than a dress. What kind of trousers could i wear at a wedding and do many females wear trousers? I might go and have a look in next tomorrow but i still wouldnt know lol.

i wouldnt know the answer to that but jumpsuits are really pretty and if you get the right one, its perf for a wedding.

If you're more concerned about what people you don't really know are wearing to your wedding than actually getting married, you have your priorities all wrong. The vast majority of people don't actually want to be there anyway, they go out of politeness because you invited them, really they wish you hadn't. They shouldn't have to buy clothes they'll have no other use for, just for your wedding. You're getting married, it shouldn't matter what other people are doing, it should be the last thing on your mind.

Ive just been having a look at them on next's website they do look ok i was thinking of maybe a jumpsuit p, some boots with like a grey blazer i already have.

Do any of these look ok
http://www.next.co.uk/shop/productaffiliation-jumpsuitsandplaysuits-0#4_151

I would care. It's a ceremony where everything is planned to the smallest detail, and I'd want the outcome to be decent. An adult person, which you don't appear to be, accepts the fact that she must have clothes for different occasions. It's your responsibility to dress appropriately in the office, at a ceremony, at a dinner, at a formal event, at a funeral and at a wedding. In this case, we aren't even talking about black tie (or white): a decent dress for a woman and a shirt and suit for a man don't seem unachievable.

Im a tomboy i dont have any dresses and dont know what to wear. Black leggings are the smartest things I have. The wedding involves a boat ride then a meal or something like that. Id rather not wear a dress but i will if i have to i was thinking of leggings with a smart top but is this too casual. I just wondered if anyone advise, thanks.

boots to a weddings isnt nice. wear flats or heels
the plain ones are nice for a wedding. the black or white plain ones are the ones i can see would look best

The occasion is more important than you making a statement. Suck it up.