Yeah, I think probably it's more socially acceptable among girls to have one... guys tend to be ashamed of everything, and most guys don't talk with other guys (or anyone) about having a fleshlight if they do. Guys (I'm a guy by the way) are so afraid of being seen as "gay" (at least in the USA where I live) that they think anything aside from talking about laying chicks might be gay so they don't talk about it.