I was asleep in the morning, and my boyfriend was on his phone, I then 2 hours later went on his phone to use his safari browser, to search up a private nursery as I had an interview with them. When i clicked on the browser the first thing that came up was porn hub. He then noticed and snatched his phone out of my hand, I did not say anything or cry I just looked at him blankly.. he then refused to give me his phone, so I said to him if he doesnt hand the phone over, it is going back to the shop, when he gave me it back, i looked closer and the history had been cleared and it was on iphone private browser... He then cried and felt guilty for looking at it, as it was his grandmas birthday i dropped it as i didnt want to make a scene. 2 hours later, I asked him why did you watch it and he said because they scream, so i asked him did you get turned on which he replied yes to and he used it to jack himself off .. my heart is shattered, i feel all my emotions are blocked and I dont know what to do anymore, I know i love him still and weve been together just over a year . but now hes at work and im just wondering to myself whether he is on another website looking at it since i blocked the first one off his phone.. i just dont know what to say or do
Watching porn while in a relationship isn't a big deal or weird. I'm pretty sure most people do it. If it bothers you that much just have an open discussion with him.
Aye, its very common to watch porn, even in a relationship or even when you are married. But if you do have an issue with it, just bring it up with him.
It doesn't mean he is not in love with you. Guys masturbate to porn all the time. Is no biggie. My bf does it too. I was really bothered at first, but after awhile, I got over it. Nowadays, he speaks openly about it and is funny to me now. Let your bf masturbate in peace. There's nothing wrong with it
Why does it matter to you if your boyfriend watches porn? That's very normal.
Get over it, virtually all guys watch porn, it's not a serious issue.
You sound a little bit controlling, he hasn't cheated on you or anything. I can see why it would hurt initially but I don't think it's really a big deal in the grand scheme of things
I think you'll probably have a hard time finding a boyfriend who doesn't watch porn, although there are some out there. Even if they aren't watching porn, guys aren't always going to be thinking about their girlfriends while masturbating either. If it really bothers you, you'll have to let him know how you feel and see what he says. Maybe you can make some kind of deal and have a lot of sex with him instead of him looking at anything.