He is secretive after 3 years and clingy

Been with my boyfriend for 3 years, he tells me all about the people I know in his life e.g. close family and family friends etc. I just feel like he hides things, he sometimes says I heard off an old friend or old workmate today but doesn't say who, as we ask each other if we have heard off anyone lately. I usually tell him the person's name when he asks me.

I don't know if he is trying to look popular or he is hiding something. I even hide now if I have heard off old male friends even if its completely innocent as he gets insecure at times when I hung out with males - find it insulting though cos I would reject a guy's advances if he did try anything.

I don't have many friends and wanna hook up with some 'net pals' I would consider safety etc but just feel he is holding me back cos I know he would get worried I have been in 'chat rooms' and hadn't thought to mention everything and every website I go on. Why he is so secretive and anti chatrooms?

Reply 1

Somewhat Damaged

Anonymous

Been with my boyfriend for 3 years, he tells me all about the people I know in his life e.g. close family and family friends etc. I just feel like he hides things, he sometimes says I heard off an old friend or old workmate today but doesn't say who, as we ask each other if we have heard off anyone lately. I usually tell him the person's name when he asks me.

I don't know if he is trying to look popular or he is hiding something. I even hide now if I have heard off old male friends even if its completely innocent as he gets insecure at times when I hung out with males - find it insulting though cos I would reject a guy's advances if he did try anything.

I don't have many friends and wanna hook up with some 'net pals' I would consider safety etc but just feel he is holding me back cos I know he would get worried I have been in 'chat rooms' and hadn't thought to mention everything and every website I go on. Why he is so secretive and anti chatrooms?

He is allowed a life outside of his own with you.
And if it's an "old friend" it's a person of HIS past, you don't really need much to know about that anyways, I'm sure that's hardly what he wants to talk to you about anyways.
I think your just being paranoid.
Maybe he's so anti-chat rooms, because he's cautious?
I'm sure you've heard various warnings about meeting people offline - he's just looking out for you.
Or MAYBE he thinks you can get friends IRL.
I don't see what else he is hiding from you - as all you've said is he doesn't like chatrooms, and just won't mention old friends names.

Doesn't suound that weird to me. :s-smilie:

Reply 2

silverbolt

19

Anonymous

Why he is so secretive and anti chatrooms?

my real name is henry the VIII ive been reincarnated 600 years in the future and sent into the presnt to rulle all your lives and have sex with jessica alba

get the point?

Reply 3

Tomber

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silverbolt

my real name is henry the VIII ive been reincarnated 600 years in the future and sent into the presnt to rulle all your lives and have sex with jessica alba

You Lie Sir!!! :mad:

That goes against every sacred code of the internet forum.....

Reply 4

username47781

20

Well it looks like here that you are both as bad as each other, you moan about him possibly hiding things, yet he is allowed friends outside the relationship. Then again he's moaning about you trying to make some new friends.

Think you both need to talk to each other and see where your relationship is actually going, because these clingy issues will ruin the relationship, trust me from personal experience.

He is secretive after 3 years and clingy

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