Met a girl

Heya. I met a girl on a night out, and made quite a connection with her. She seems keen, giving off all the right signals, and asked me for my number as well.
What is the best way to proceed? What should I text her etc?
thanks

Reply 1

username47781

Yeah just text her saying you had a good night and ask if you want to do it again sometime

Reply 2

dh00001

how well did you get to know her? enough to text her asking if she wants to meet up again sometime?

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

yeh, spent quite a lot of the night talking and getting to know each other, and I suggested meeting sometime and she seemed keen. Not really sure what would be a good place to meet and what to do. Any ideas?

Reply 4

short stuff

i would send her a txt saying hi. dont try and meet up with her on just 1 night out you probley dont know her well enough yet. just txt for a while and see how it goes. :wink:

Reply 5

username47781

Maybe meet in a cafe or go to the pub for a drink etc

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

OK, agreed to meet up for a drink. Sounded quite keen.
How should I approach it? E.g continue where left off, or take a step back? E.g. How should I act when meet her again, and during the meet up. Don't usually meet girls from nights out situations, so bit new.
Also what kind of place would be appropriate for a drink?

Reply 7

FreeBird

A good pub I'd say, not too loud or anything, so you can talk. Like a whetherspoons or lloyds or something?
Tho, tbh I've never gone for 'a drink' before.

When you meet her again just be friendly, dont come over as too keen, not very good for most girls. Just focus on getting to know her. Tho obviously a bit of flirting is needed!! lol

Good luck ! :smile:

Reply 8

candy_kiss

But like if you go to a pub it might be bit embarssin if the converssation dries up, so i think, food then cinema. and sit in a corner, its a dark room after all :wink:

Reply 9

Kittennffc

Nah, I'd say definately don't go for food or the cinema! Most people I know are quite embarassed about eating in front of people they hardly know - what if you get food in your teeth etc. And you can't talk in the cinema.

Just meet her early evening time so it's starting to get busy so there's an atmosphere, but it wont be too loud. Offer to get her a drink and just talk! I'm sure you'll find something to discuss - ask her about favourite films, TV shows, books, how her course is going (if you are at uni)...

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

ok cool. Would you suggest choosing a place nearby to where we live, e.g. a local pub, or venture into town a bit to a place like varsity or wetherspoons etc?
What is the best plan for afterwards as well? See how things go, or part ways and then get in touch sometime the next day or something? And would it be expected to kiss before saying bye?
Just trying to get things right, after that should be lot easier.
Thanks

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

also, don't think anyone replied to the bit about how you're meant to act when meeting her again. Assume things are as they were when last parted ways, and hold hands etc, or only start doing those kind of things when have been talking for a while?