I like submissive women in bed. But outside that I wouldn't assert dominance over my partner. I won't be her "boss"
Both. I'm not gonna go out with a robot but then again no one likes a bossy cow either
I like being dominated in bed but outwith that I dont expect to get bossed around or controlled.
Opinionated. I want to be with someone I respect.
You seem to think really strongly in terms of very old fashioned and traditional hierahierarchies. As an opinionated but petite and "cute" girl who wants to be a politically active academic I would hope the man for me is masculine enough to be confident and not insecure. I pity the spineless woman you date one day and hope you reconsider your myopic selfish ways