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    I like submissive women in bed. But outside that I wouldn't assert dominance over my partner. I won't be her "boss"
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah, I'm basically in the middle if there's something I disagree with I argue my side but at the same time, sometimes I cba fighting - would that come across as weak. I usually just go quiet but more out of anger rather than 'you win'.

    And yeah, there's no way I could hurt a guy, I'd probably get annihilated plus I don't see any reason unless my life is in danger or sm.
    where does violence fit into this thread? We are basically talking about giving and receiving orders and I do neither. I do not control and I will not be controlled. Violence should only be used in self-defence and is therefore not relevant (in theory).
    you are your own person and any potential partner either accepts that or takes a long walk off a short pier. There is no reason to hand your life over to any guy unless that is how you choose to live. That is YOUR choice though and any guy who tries to take choice from you is a waste of your time. You could do better!
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    Both. I'm not gonna go out with a robot but then again no one likes a bossy cow either
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    (Original post by ANM775)
    No, I just caught someone spitting in my food once ...and tbh I was seeing those sorts of passive aggressive red flags in that persons behavior for a while so was sorta half expecting something like that...........
    WTF that's disgusting omg
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    I like being dominated in bed but outwith that I dont expect to get bossed around or controlled.
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    (Original post by Richard0328)
    where does violence fit into this thread? We are basically talking about giving and receiving orders and I do neither. I do not control and I will not be controlled. Violence should only be used in self-defence and is therefore not relevant (in theory).
    you are your own person and any potential partner either accepts that or takes a long walk off a short pier. There is no reason to hand your life over to any guy unless that is how you choose to live. That is YOUR choice though and any guy who tries to take choice from you is a waste of your time. You could do better!
    yeah sorry about that I was having a discussion about that in a different thread and kind of dragged it into the convo but pretty much agree with you
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    yeah sorry about that I was having a discussion about that in a different thread and kind of dragged it into the convo but pretty much agree with you
    edit: the person i was quoting was talking about violence
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    Submissive girls in bed. :sexface:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    yeah sorry about that I was having a discussion about that in a different thread and kind of dragged it into the convo but pretty much agree with you
    No need to apologise. I was making a point and men being violent towards women is my biggest pet hate. In fact it is the only situation that caused me to be violent and even then I did not use excessive force. Just enough to chase him away. I have known a lot of women over the years and sadly the vast majority have been victims of violence and I just do not understand why they are still around after the first incident. Once is too often!
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    (Original post by shameful_burrito)
    I like submissive women in bed. But outside that I wouldn't assert dominance over my partner. I won't be her "boss"
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    I like being dominated in bed but outwith that I dont expect to get bossed around or controlled.
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    Submissive girls in bed. :sexface:
    im noticing a trend:chaplin:
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    (Original post by Richard0328)
    No need to apologise. I was making a point and men being violent towards women is my biggest pet hate. In fact it is the only situation that caused me to be violent and even then I did not use excessive force. Just enough to chase him away. I have known a lot of women over the years and sadly the vast majority have been victims of violence and I just do not understand why they are still around after the first incident. Once is too often!
    I agree, I think it's insecurity - these type of guys usually hurl verbal abuse at their partner to the point where they feel like no one will love them and when they try to leave they tell them how much they love them, etc. Psychological warfare. Surely if he loved you he wouldn't be punching you in the face but love can be blind so ****ing blind.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    im noticing a trend:chaplin:
    Threesome?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Do you like girls who let you lead or girls who are assertive/opinionated?
    No. A girl needs to speak up sometimes and have the confidence to be herself around a guy and not just be some sort of submissive robot constantly, that would be boring and it would not help the relationship to last long.
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    (Original post by Furai)
    No. A girl needs to speak up sometimes and have the confidence to be herself around a guy and not just be some sort of submissive robot constantly, that would be boring and it would not help the relationship to last long.
    If a guy is a control freak, that kind of relationship lasts a long time.
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    (Original post by Furai)
    No. A girl needs to speak up sometimes and have the confidence to be herself around a guy and not just be some sort of submissive robot constantly, that would be boring and it would not help the relationship to last long.
    I agree, but relationships like this can last - they're unhealthy tho
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I agree, but relationships like this can last - they're unhealthy tho
    Unhealthy for the girl. The guy would still feel fine probably, but an as****le nonetheless!
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    Opinionated. I want to be with someone I respect.
 
 
 
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