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Why isn't he asking me any questions? watch

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    So I'm talking to this guy at the moment who I think I could potentially really like but I feel like the conversation is being pushed by me because I'm the only one that ever asks questions. For example, I was asking which uni he's going to which would obviously be a really easy opportunity to be like 'what about you?' but he just answers it and seems to expect me to just continue the conversation like that.

    Usually I'd assume it's because he's not interested but just a couple of hours ago he actually asked me to go out with him in a few weeks so I just don't know what to think. It's so infuriating
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    Some people aren't good at conversation.

    Also, a conversation doesn't have to end because someone isn't asking questions. I don't think many of my conversations these days are just back and forth questions, it's not an interview. Throw in some friendly banter, if he has some sense of humour he'll either throw some back and probably try to continue the conversation. If not then they're probably just boring and you need to meet up in real life because some people are bad texters.

    omg that guy is me. He's just bad at that stuff and doesn't know your expectations, might not even realise he's not giving you what ya want.
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