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    Should I still pursue a friendship with this guy I like even though he said "we're not in the same place". Meaning he doesn't want a relationship.
    Although, he did say he would pursue me if & when he;s ready just not right now.
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    (Original post by nursestudent007)
    Should I still pursue a friendship with this guy I like even though he said "we're not in the same place". Meaning he doesn't want a relationship.
    Although, he did say he would pursue me if & when he;s ready just not right now.
    lol no drop him
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    (Original post by nursestudent007)
    Should I still pursue a friendship with this guy I like even though he said "we're not in the same place". Meaning he doesn't want a relationship.
    Although, he did say he would pursue me if & when he;s ready just not right now.
    maybe he wants to be with you but is currently with a girl already so he's waiting till they break up to be with you. if you really want him then wait for a while otherwise move on
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    (Original post by JamandJelly)
    maybe he wants to be with you but is currently with a girl already so he's waiting till they break up to be with you. if you really want him then wait for a while otherwise move on
    nah he doesn't have a girl lol
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    (Original post by nursestudent007)
    nah he doesn't have a girl lol
    how do you know for sure 100% sure?
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    (Original post by JamandJelly)
    how do you know for sure 100% sure?
    we're family friends and he's been honest from day 1 about everything so why lie about having a girl ?
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    (Original post by nursestudent007)
    we're family friends and he's been honest from day 1 about everything so why lie about having a girl ?
    anyone can lie...
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    (Original post by nursestudent007)
    Should I still pursue a friendship with this guy I like even though he said "we're not in the same place". Meaning he doesn't want a relationship.
    Although, he did say he would pursue me if & when he;s ready just not right now.
    Why not? I think you should be friend with him. Not everyone wants to be in a relationship. Is all about timing. When my current boyfriend confessed to me, I rejected him and friend zoned him. I really didn't want a relationship at the time. I also liked someone else. He felt really awkward and wanted to stop our friendship. But I didn't let him go. I cared for him. Later on, I fell in love with him xD. He showed me so much kindness during our friendship. Anyway, what you got to lose?
 
 
 
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