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    I got two girls' numbers from a club but didn't make a move (first time clubbing and me being me lol). I felt the attraction was there but I was really stupid and tried to have a convo. I'm not sure if a date afterwards would be suitable?

    I'm going to text her back but unsure what to say. Should it be something like "hey it's (blank) from (this club), want to meet up?"
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I got two girls' numbers from a club but didn't make a move (first time clubbing and me being me lol). I felt the attraction was there but I was really stupid and tried to have a convo. I'm not sure if a date afterwards would be suitable?

    I'm going to text her back but unsure what to say. Should it be something like "hey it's (blank) from (this club), want to meet up?"

    you should kick yourself for only taking a number and not going for anything more.

    chances are you'll never see either of them again.

    It was only your first time though, so don't be too hard on yourself.

    It doesn't really matter what you text her. There is no trick or secret method that works to make girls meet up with you. If she has strong interest in you she'll meet you again, if she doesn't then she'll flake........

    good luck..........
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    (Original post by ANM775)
    you should kick yourself for only taking a number and not going for anything more.

    chances are you'll never see either of them again.

    It was only your first time though, so don't be too hard on yourself.

    It doesn't really matter what you text her. There is no trick or secret method that works to make girls meet up with you. If she has strong interest in you she'll meet you again, if she doesn't then she'll flake........

    good luck..........
    Yeah I kicked myself mentally so much afterwards, the second girl legit had to go though but the first one was really my fault ffs
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I got two girls' numbers from a club but didn't make a move (first time clubbing and me being me lol). I felt the attraction was there but I was really stupid and tried to have a convo. I'm not sure if a date afterwards would be suitable?

    I'm going to text her back but unsure what to say. Should it be something like "hey it's (blank) from (this club), want to meet up?"
    No girl is going to want to meet up with a stranger. You have to get to know her first. Regular texting/ phone calls calls/FaceTime. If your personalities are compatible, she will probably initiate wanting to see you before you even ask her
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    (Original post by cherryred90s)
    No girl is going to want to meet up with a stranger. You have to get to know her first. Regular texting/ phone calls calls/FaceTime. If your personalities are compatible, she will probably initiate wanting to see you before you even ask her
    Okay, so should I text her to start off with then?

    Instead of asking to meet up, what should I text/call her about?

    Thanks
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    (Original post by cherryred90s)
    No girl is going to want to meet up with a stranger. You have to get to know her first. Regular texting/ phone calls calls/FaceTime. If your personalities are compatible, she will probably initiate wanting to see you before you even ask her
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    Okay, so should I text her to start off with then?

    Instead of asking to meet up, what should I text/call her about?

    Thanks
    Ask her how her day was and what she got up to/what she does I.e college/uni/job, talk abit about yourself but not too much.

    Avoid 'what are your hobbies' or 'what do you look for In a guy.' Those are the most annoying questions ever
 
 
 
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