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    Basically, I really like this girl and I think she likes me too but we're 200 miles apart . we've known each other for about 7 weeks now and speak every day. I wanna keep speaking to her but it hurts that she's too far away and I don't think we can be friends. Should I just stop talking to her or keep talking to her. She really wants to keep speaking to me but I don't know what to do. How do you get over someone if you keep speaking to them? Help
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    (Original post by Jm012)
    Basically, I really like this girl and I think she likes me too but we're 200 miles apart . we've known each other for about 7 weeks now and speak every day. I wanna keep speaking to her but it hurts that she's too far away and I don't think we can be friends. Should I just stop talking to her or keep talking to her. She really wants to keep speaking to me but I don't know what to do. How do you get over someone if you keep speaking to them? Help
    Skype her then. You can talk and see her then.

    If she wants to still stop talking, just stop talking then.

    Time heals all wounds
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    (Original post by SGHD26716)
    Skype her then. You can talk and see her then.

    If she wants to still stop talking, just stop talking then.

    Time heals all wounds
    We FaceTime quite a lot but there's nothing I can do about the feelings is there? No point in being in a long distance relationship as they never work. Also she wants to keep taking, I just don't know if I want to keep speaking to her as I wanna be more than friends but I don't think we can 👍
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    (Original post by Jm012)
    We FaceTime quite a lot but there's nothing I can do about the feelings is there? No point in being in a long distance relationship as they never work. Also she wants to keep taking, I just don't know if I want to keep speaking to her as I wanna be more than friends but I don't think we can 👍
    My parents were in a long distance relationship-- 2500 miles.

    They've been married 20 years
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    (Original post by SGHD26716)
    My parents were in a long distance relationship-- 2500 miles.

    They've been married 20 years
    Wow, did they start off in a long distance relationship??
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    (Original post by Jm012)
    Wow, did they start off in a long distance relationship??
    HUGE DISCLAIMER: this was an arranged marriage
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    (Original post by SGHD26716)
    HUGE DISCLAIMER: this was an arranged marriage
    Well that doesn't help at all 😂 Do you rekon I tell her how I feel tho or will it just ruin things?
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    (Original post by Jm012)
    Well that doesn't help at all 😂 Do you rekon I tell her how I feel tho or will it just ruin things?
    If I were in your position, I would tell her. This is because there are 3 things that could happen

    1) you don't tell her and lose contact
    2) you tell her and she's not interested so you lose contact
    3) you tell her and she is interested in you.

    I would tell her. At least you'll know and won't regret anything.
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    (Original post by SGHD26716)
    If I were in your position, I would tell her. This is because there are 3 things that could happen

    1) you don't tell her and lose contact
    2) you tell her and she's not interested so you lose contact
    3) you tell her and she is interested in you.

    I would tell her. At least you'll know and won't regret anything.
    I think I'll tell her but even if she is interested, do you think travelling 7/8 hours to see her would be too much? Is it too much of a distance??
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    (Original post by Jm012)
    I think I'll tell her but even if she is interested, do you think travelling 7/8 hours to see her would be too much? Is it too much of a distance??
    It's all down to you; I don't know how much you like her.

    Also, worry about the small details later and ask her. Where there's a will there's a way
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    (Original post by SGHD26716)
    It's all down to you; I don't know how much you like her.

    Also, worry about the small details later and ask her. Where there's a will there's a way
    I like her quite a lot tbh. And thanks for the advice mate, appreciate it 👍
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    (Original post by Jm012)
    I like her quite a lot tbh. And thanks for the advice mate, appreciate it 👍
    Go for it then and good luck
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    (Original post by SGHD26716)
    Go for it then and good luck
    I will and thankyou 👍
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    (Original post by Jm012)
    I think I'll tell her but even if she is interested, do you think travelling 7/8 hours to see her would be too much? Is it too much of a distance??
    You can meet in the middle
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    (Original post by yaspaksoy)
    You can meet in the middle
    Yeah I guess, let's hope she's interested like
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    All I can say is good luck
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    (Original post by qasim_96)
    All I can say is good luck
    Niceone 👍
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    if you can make a long distance relationship work, your relationship will be stronk.

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    just saying.
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    Good luck 🍀👍
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    (Original post by TheAlchemistress)
    Good luck 🍀👍
    Thankyou
 
 
 
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