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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Man, I give up on girls... There just so ****ing hard to read. Like they will seem interested, but then not message you again, then even when you make the next message, they don't get back to u.... Like WTF. **** relationships, I wish I was some sociopath lmao.
    You are wrong, humans are complicated, not just girls.
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    (Original post by eden3)
    Women do not know what they're attracted to because attraction occurs on a subconscious level.... so they'll say they like a certain thing in a guy, but will go for a guy who is the polar opposite.
    I am guilty of this myself
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Man, I give up on girls... There just so ****ing hard to read. Like they will seem interested, but then not message you again, then even when you make the next message, they don't get back to u.... Like WTF. **** relationships, I wish I was some sociopath lmao.
    Long story short, she's probably not interested anymore and doesn't have the heart to tell you OR in rare cases, she's playing hard to get.
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    (Original post by tammie123)
    I am guilty of this myself
    Haha at least you own up to it
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    I know it's easy to jump to conclusions but it's important to look at the situation from an outside view maybe she's going through a tough time herself and doesn't want to let you down as she won't be able to give 100% into the relationship ?? Obviously try messaging again and just confront her saying what's going
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    Yeah maybe she's going through a hard time
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    Take some break.
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    (Original post by TheAlchemistress)
    Boys are complicated too you know.
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    I think boys over exaggerate how confusing girls are
    Boys are confusing too
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    LOOL I think guys are just as confusing tbh what was the last convo like ??
    How are guys confusing?
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    (Original post by awkwardshortguy)
    How are guys confusing?
    Don't get me started. I can list it.
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    Don't get me started. I can list it.
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    Then stop investing so much time into a girl you're not even dating. If she's not responding to you or giving one word replies, she is either busy, bad at texting or not interested.

    No need to overthink, just move on.
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    Step 1: Recognize that it's also your fault and that you, like everyone else, have flaws.

    Step 2: Work on your appearance. There's no way around it - being physically fit and taking care of your appearance is important.

    Step 3: Spend some time improving your confidence, working on your personality and learning how to better communicate with people.

    Step 4: Make it known that you're available and approach the people you're interest in and demonstrate your interest.
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    "Girls aren't confusing, Boys aren't understanding" -Kraggor 2017
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
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    Immature
    Disrespect
    Annoying
    Vain
    Not loyal
    Loud
    Don't take anything seriously
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    This book might help?
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    Immature
    Disrespect
    Annoying
    Vain
    Not loyal
    Loud
    Don't take anything seriously
    I'm the opposite to all of that, unless i feel like being loud
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    (Original post by TheAlchemistress)
    Immature
    Disrespect
    Annoying
    Vain
    Not loyal
    Loud
    Don't take anything seriously
    That's just a list of negative characteristics. It doesn't tell me how boys are confusing.
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    (Original post by awkwardshortguy)
    That's just a list of negative characteristics. It doesn't tell me how boys are confusing.
    They don't know which negative to be.
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    (Original post by TheAlchemistress)
    They don't know which negative to be.
    (Original post by awkwardshortguy)
    That's just a list of negative characteristics. It doesn't tell me how boys are confusing.
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Man, I give up on girls... There just so ****ing hard to read. Like they will seem interested, but then not message you again, then even when you make the next message, they don't get back to u.... Like WTF. **** relationships, I wish I was some sociopath lmao.
    aren't you lot being a bit close minded here? Surely it's not gender that decides your attributes.
    If somebody isn't confusing then they are probably boring because there is no challenge in trying to understand them and getting to know them. Y'all just whining that you won't get what you want without much effort.

    (Original post by TheAlchemistress)
    Immature
    Disrespect
    Annoying
    Vain
    Not loyal
    Loud
    Don't take anything seriously
    And surely you're being most of these things listing just by making this list.
    I'm male and I can tell you that although I don't take a lot of things seriously I take my grades, some say too much, and social life seriously. Just because you have *****y experiences doesn't mean that all boys aren't loyal either.
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    (Original post by AspiringUnderdog)
    aren't you lot being a bit close minded here? Surely it's not gender that decides your attributes.
    If somebody isn't confusing then they are probably boring because there is no challenge in trying to understand them and getting to know them. Y'all just whining that you won't get what you want without much effort.
    How does my post that you quoted have anything to do with what you said above?
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    (Original post by AspiringUnderdog)
    aren't you lot being a bit close minded here? Surely it's not gender that decides your attributes.
    If somebody isn't confusing then they are probably boring because there is no challenge in trying to understand them and getting to know them. Y'all just whining that you won't get what you want without much effort.



    And surely you're being most of these things listing just by making this list.
    I'm male and I can tell you that although I don't take a lot of things seriously I take my grades, some say too much, and social life seriously. Just because you have *****y experiences doesn't mean that all boys aren't loyal either.
    It's funny you say that because I have been going to a girls school for 5 years.
 
 
 
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