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    This white guy at a reception keeps looking at me. I know that he's staring at me because there's other people there too and he doesn't stare at them. I'm an Asian girl which made me think is he staring because he's one of those white guys who hates Muslims or something? Don't usually get white people looking at me so this is just plain weird. Also he doesn't smile he just kind of stares with a blank face. What is up with this dude? It is starting to creep me out...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    This white guy at a reception keeps looking at me. I know that he's staring at me because there's other people there too and he doesn't stare at them. I'm an Asian girl which made me think is he staring because he's one of those white guys who hates Muslims or something? Don't usually get white people looking at me so this is just plain weird. Also he doesn't smile he just kind of stares with a blank face. What is up with this dude? It is starting to creep me out...
    the insecurity is strong
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    Is his name Rob?
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    I have to go there again tomorrow and I'm creeped af
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    maybe he likes u???....
    just seriously go talk to him
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    (Original post by shameful_burrito)
    the insecurity is strong
    Can't blame me, I've had a lot of racism before and I'm scared he has something against me
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    Is his name Rob?
    No I think he's called Daniel not sure though
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    Its not that deep


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    He wants to eat your skin

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    (Original post by Bad8oys)
    Its not that deep


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    It is when you're being watched
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    This white guy at a reception keeps looking at me. I know that he's staring at me because there's other people there too and he doesn't stare at them. I'm an Asian girl which made me think is he staring because he's one of those white guys who hates Muslims or something? Don't usually get white people looking at me so this is just plain weird. Also he doesn't smile he just kind of stares with a blank face. What is up with this dude? It is starting to creep me out...
    So basically, just because he's white you're instantly assuming he's an anti-Islamic racist/bigot? That kinda makes you racist.

    Anyway, it could just be that he fancies you

    But seriously, grow a back bone and just approach him and ask him why he keeps staring at you. Tell him that you respectfully would like him to stop because it makes you feel uncomfortable. It's time to be a grown up yo. No assumptions. No hesitation. Just cut straight to what you want.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    This white guy at a reception keeps looking at me. I know that he's staring at me because there's other people there too and he doesn't stare at them. I'm an Asian girl which made me think is he staring because he's one of those white guys who hates Muslims or something? Don't usually get white people looking at me so this is just plain weird. Also he doesn't smile he just kind of stares with a blank face. What is up with this dude? It is starting to creep me out...
    He probably thinks you're pretty or likes your hair or something. I find that 9 times out of 10 if people are looking at you it's for a good reason, unless you have something obviously wrong with you like your make up is smudged all our your face.

    If you are creeped out by it then move or just ignore. Try not to assume the worst in people, especially because of their skin colour.
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    He wants your autograph sis x
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    It is when you're being watched
    For you to notice he's watching you, you must be watching him which might be why he watches you.

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    And why on Earth does the fact that he is white have to come into it? The average white male can't even so much as breathe these days without the PC brigade getting on his back.
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    (Original post by Bad8oys)
    For you to notice he's watching you, you must be watching him which might be why he watches you.

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    Not really. I try to not look at him but every time I look in his direction he is already staring at me.
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    I can smell the insecurity from a mile away. Why do you care so much?
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    (Original post by Dot.Cotton)
    And why on Earth does the fact that he is white have to come into it? The average white male can't even so much as breathe these days without the PC brigade getting on his back.
    I don't know some white people hate Muslims. Not that I blame them but some of us just want to live a peaceful life...
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    (Original post by MrIso)
    I can smell the insecurity from a mile away. Why do you care so much?
    I care because I feel like he is judging me
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    This white guy at a reception keeps looking at me. I know that he's staring at me because there's other people there too and he doesn't stare at them. I'm an Asian girl which made me think is he staring because he's one of those white guys who hates Muslims or something? Don't usually get white people looking at me so this is just plain weird. Also he doesn't smile he just kind of stares with a blank face. What is up with this dude? It is starting to creep me out...

    If it's really that bad then confront him next time he does it

    you: "can I help you?"
    him: "what?"
    you: "You're always staring at me each time you see me"
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    I care because I feel like he is judging me
    Did it ever cross your mind that he might like you? Why dont you ask him why hes looking at you?
 
 
 
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