In last couple days I had made threads asking how long I should wait before trying to ask out this girl at my work place in a pharmacy as I have only been there for 2 days. Initially I was really feeling the urge to ask her out for a drink today etc, but I did not and I managed to find her on facebook and it turns out she is a lesbian. Of course I respect her life and would not give myself the permission to wish things were different in her life just for my benefit, but still I am a little sad
Look, there's lots of other girls out there. Stop dwelling on one girl and talk to more.
It's been 7 years since I was in a relationship, for some reason I thought this time I may find someone again. I am hurting a little. Just need to try to find someone else I guess.
In last couple days I had made threads asking how long I should wait before trying to ask out this girl at my work place in a pharmacy as I have only been there for 2 days. Initially I was really feeling the urge to ask her out for a drink today etc, but I did not and I managed to find her on facebook and it turns out she is a lesbian. Of course I respect her life and would not give myself the permission to wish things were different in her life just for my benefit, but still I am a little sad
In last couple days I had made threads asking how long I should wait before trying to ask out this girl at my work place in a pharmacy as I have only been there for 2 days. Initially I was really feeling the urge to ask her out for a drink today etc, but I did not and I managed to find her on facebook and it turns out she is a lesbian. Of course I respect her life and would not give myself the permission to wish things were different in her life just for my benefit, but still I am a little sad
At least she didnt turn out to be a lesbian AFTER you went out with her. No joke, that happened twice to a friend of mine, Twice!!! In a row too!!!!
Anyway, there isnt much you can do Im afraid, youre just going to have to move on as you'll never get with her. If its any consolation, neither will any other guy
Thank you to those with your nice comment you're making me feel better. Some days it seems I feel down anyway for no reason and this week has been overall quite sad for me for a variety of reasons one of which was this. I needed to open up by making this thread and this has helped. It's quite rare that I see someone and I want them and get the urge to ask them out. I am 24 and I have this bad gut feeling that maybe I'll never find anyone again I know its probably rubbish but I cant shake it off. It's just that many times in a row now when I wanted someone, something has happened and it did not lead to a relationship.