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    • Thread Starter

    Hi guys,

    I'm in a dilemma at the moment regarding a problem with a girl.

    My friend was talking to a girl and everyone thought they were bound to end up in a relationship but I wasn't sure if she was keen. I started talking to her, which I know was probably wrong as I know how much my friend likes her and eventually she said she liked me and wanted to kiss etc. We arranged to meet and I thought it went really well but when I got home she seemed less keen, which I thought meant I had done something wrong but she said I did nothing.

    Me and my friend got into a big argument about this and he said I was a **** for going after her when I knew he liked her.

    She seemed more distant and less interested whenever I talked to her, which really confused me and so yesterday I decided to ask her straight up. She said she just wanted to remain close friends and she liked someone else and when I asked who, she said my friend.

    Now I'm really confused as I don't know whether she's played me, both of us or whatever. I do really like her though and would be willing to chase her and try and make her change her mind.

    Any advice?
    • #1

    I think you should respect what she's said, but if you need closure you should talk to her about her feelings towards you

    Why would you go after a girl that you know your friend likes? Leave them be, this isn't a love triangle, this is you being selfish and going in between something that could turn out to be a good relationship between the girl and your friend.

    Often when, with some reservation, you betray a mate it doesn't work out well.
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