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    So I went on a date with this girl on Monday. I thought we had fun and we talked a lot. We said goodbye and she said we'd talk later. I didn't want to text her straight away so I waited a day before texting. I texted her on whatsapp but she responded on the dating app instead, which I found a bit odd. I replied to her on the app anyway and she talked a little bit. Then she just stopped responding to my messages. I've decided to wait for her to text but she hasn't. Does this mean she isn't interested then and I should just give up and carry on searching for other women?
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    (Original post by constantine2016)
    So I went on a date with this girl on Monday. I thought we had fun and we talked a lot. We said goodbye and she said we'd talk later. I didn't want to text her straight away so I waited a day before texting. I texted her on whatsapp but she responded on the dating app instead, which I found a bit odd. I replied to her on the app anyway and she talked a little bit. Then she just stopped responding to my messages. I've decided to wait for her to text but she hasn't. Does this mean she isn't interested then and I should just give up and carry on searching for other women?
    Sounds like a flake to me. Yes, search for other women
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    I wouldn't waste any more time on her.
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    You're getting ghosted, which is fairly standard (especially for online dating) so you just need to message more girls and go on more dates.

    It's probably better to text on the day of the date, I don't think it's needy, in fact it shows you're interested at least.
 
 
 
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