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    hi there,
    me and my boyfrien are together for about 3 months now and I think we are moving too quickly. For me sexual acts are just reserved for marriage, yes i am religious but my boyfriend isn't and I never know how to mention this things to him. I feel so guilty mainly because he tried to have sex with me and I'm bleeding so probably I'm not virgin any more and this is scaring me a lot. Probably I shouldn't be dating him at all and letting him cross my boundaries. Now I just feel very bad with the whole situation
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    Hey,

    I have been in a similar situation.

    My mums preety strict and always made me think virginity is for marriage.

    But, its about what you believe.
    if you also want to wait until marriage you should tell your boyfreind
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    also, not every girl has a hymen. i didnt have one, and that was before i even had sex.
    girls can loose their hymen by playing sports, injury etc.

    its not a big deal.

    and also im sure god will forgive you, if you love your boyfreind.
    dont stress I am sure you will figure a way out.
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    He tried to have sex with you or he did?

    And what has this go to do with oral?
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    The only oral I'm giving is to B to clean my teeth if you know you know
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    qasim_96 Roses are red..I got my prom suit at next..
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    hi there,
    me and my boyfrien are together for about 3 months now and I think we are moving too quickly. For me sexual acts are just reserved for marriage, yes i am religious but my boyfriend isn't and I never know how to mention this things to him. I feel so guilty mainly because he tried to have sex with me and I'm bleeding so probably I'm not virgin any more and this is scaring me a lot. Probably I shouldn't be dating him at all and letting him cross my boundaries. Now I just feel very bad with the whole situation
    Well you already put the d1ck in your mouth know so just move on.
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    did you come from the oral? remember if it makes you happy it can't be that bad
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    hi there,
    me and my boyfrien are together for about 3 months now and I think we are moving too quickly. For me sexual acts are just reserved for marriage, yes i am religious but my boyfriend isn't and I never know how to mention this things to him. I feel so guilty mainly because he tried to have sex with me and I'm bleeding so probably I'm not virgin any more and this is scaring me a lot. Probably I shouldn't be dating him at all and letting him cross my boundaries. Now I just feel very bad with the whole situation
    No, you shouldn't - not if you can't tell him where you're going to stand as a couple.
 
 
 
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