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    TL;DR Long story short.. I had a relatively short (4-5 month) relationship with a girl (21)I met on study abroad. She was at the time in an 'open' relationship and well after we moved back to our separate countries. Where she tried to continue a relationship with the boyfriend (of 4 years) .During this time we texted or spoke every day.
    She came to study in Europe this summer and met up in London with me for a few days (where she cheated on her guy with me..). We still had the chemistry and passion that we had built up on study abroad but she has refused to date me when I asked her.. Now she is mad with that I 'refuse to see her' again before she moves back to America, because she won't be mine . She has stated that she will stop contacting me once she moves back to the states in a weeks time.
    Is there anything I can do? Any comments would be appreciated.
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    (Original post by jacob_bcn)
    TL;DR Long story short.. I had a relatively short (4-5 month) relationship with a girl (21)I met on study abroad. She was at the time in an 'open' relationship and well after we moved back to our separate countries. Where she tried to continue a relationship with the boyfriend (of 4 years) .During this time we texted or spoke every day.
    She came to study in Europe this summer and met up in London with me for a few days (where she cheated on her guy with me..). We still had the chemistry and passion that we had built up on study abroad but she has refused to date me when I asked her.. Now she is mad with that I 'refuse to see her' again before she moves back to America, because she won't be mine . She has stated that she will stop contacting me once she moves back to the states in a weeks time.
    Is there anything I can do? Any comments would be appreciated.
    Don't waste your time on her.
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    Don't waste your time on her.

    You think so?
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    (Original post by jacob_bcn)
    You think so?
    She is going away to America and she is not interested in a relationship and this open relationship stuff can get confusing.If I were you look for a new partner or take a break from this dating stuff.You will be wasting your time if you go after her, she is not serious about being with you, so why go after her?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    She is going away to America and she is not interested in a relationship and this open relationship stuff can get confusing.If I were you look for a new partner or take a break from this dating stuff.You will be wasting your time if you go after her, she is not serious about being with you, so why go after her?
    That is unfortunately very true. I should have listened to my friends who told me to run ages ago..
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    She's a slut; why are you interested?
 
 
 
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