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    So I'm back from uni and have pretty much lost contact with most of my friends at School. Would it be weird going to clubs and/or malls on your own as a guy (obvs to meet new people). Would I look odd if I just walked into a clubs looking at everyone on my own trying to create friends? Would it be creepy? What about going to malls? I could go to clubs on my own in uni but that's just because I know most people in the clubs anyways so I can literally join a group of people I know but would going to clubs where you literally know no one there be a nono?
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    Haven't done it before but I'd assume it's fine? Just go up to as many people as you can and socialise. Won't be weird if you make new friends there. Simples.
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    It all really depends on how you go about it. If you awkwardly stumble into conversations, then most people will find it off-putting. However, it could work if you're charming, polite and able to initiate casual, relaxed conversations.
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    I don't think clubs let you in if you're on your own
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    (Original post by AndrewSCO)
    I don't think clubs let you in if you're on your own
    You sure? If not, that's fine
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    What would you do to meet new people in a mall?


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    (Original post by AndrewSCO)
    I don't think clubs let you in if you're on your own
    I've never heard of that or seen it.


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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    You sure? If not, that's fine
    Definitely heard cases of that before. I'm not sure if it's more girls they don't like going in alone
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    (Original post by YaliaV)
    What would you do to meet new people in a mall?


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    No for malls I meant is it weird to just go in their on your own, not to make friends
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    No for malls I meant is it weird to just go in their on your own, not to make friends
    No, it isn't weird. I have gone for meals by myself and I go to the cinema by myself. At a mall, nobody will even notice or care. I know someone who goes to a club by himself, but he's very outgoing and I'm not. Do what makes you happy
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    (Original post by AndrewSCO)
    I don't think clubs let you in if you're on your own
    Do you live in North Korea?
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    (Original post by YaliaV)
    I've never heard of that or seen it.


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    Do you live in North Korea?
    I don't know maybe I'm wrong, definitely heard of it happening before maybe those were just random cases.
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    It's weird.
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    Join the tourists on pub crawls where they all congregate in one area and set off together. And I go to malls all the time on my own bc I hate waiting for other people to shop- get what ou need and get out
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    No, you're being too self conscientious, no one will really care that you are at a mall unaccompanied or entered a club by yourself

    be free
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