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    Hi, I am a 20 year old guy who is gay but has a girlfriend. I would never want to have sex/a relationship with another guy. Go ahead and AMA.
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    Are you a muslim/from a Muslim background?
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    (Original post by deroon)
    hi, i am a 20 year old guy who is gay...
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    i would never want to have sex/a relationship with another guy.

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    (Original post by Loopy91)
    Are you a muslim/from a Muslim background?
    No I'm white British.
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    (Original post by deroon)
    No I'm white British.
    Why do you have a girlfriend? Don't you think she deserves someone who is genuinely attracted to her? Why do you not want to have a relationship with another man?
    Are you from a very staunch, religious background?
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    (Original post by Abu_Lahab)
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    Wanting to be with a guy and being attracted to guy are two different things.
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    How can you be gay and not want to have sex with the same gender ..
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    I'm really confused...

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    (Original post by deroon)
    Wanting to be with a guy and being attracted to guy are two different things.
    said he'd never want to have sex with another man, I mean if you're gay there must be at least 1% of your brain that wants to do it, right?
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    (Original post by deroon)
    Hi, I am a 20 year old guy who is gay but has a girlfriend. I would never want to have sex/a relationship with another guy. Go ahead and AMA.
    If you feel no romantic or physical attraction to a man how are you even gay then?
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    Good for you, my man. Very good.


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    (Original post by Abu_Lahab)
    said he'd never want to have sex with another man, I mean if you're gay there must be at least 1% of your brain that wants to do it, right?
    He could be asexual.
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    (Original post by Loopy91)
    Why do you have a girlfriend? Don't you think she deserves someone who is genuinely attracted to her? Why do you not want to have a relationship with another man?
    Are you from a very staunch, religious background?
    I want to have a heterosexual life in which I hope to eventually marry a women and have children. I genuinely do love and care about my girl and enjoy being like any other heterosexual guy. There is more to a romantic/married relationship than sexual attraction - sex is only a small part of our day to day lives and I am sure that I treat her better than how some heterosexual guys would. Although I am not religious I do believe in some traditional values.
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    (Original post by deroon)
    I want to have a heterosexual life in which I hope to eventually marry a women and have children. I genuinely do love and care about my girl and enjoy being like any other heterosexual guy. There is more to a romantic/married relationship than sexual attraction - sex is only a small part of our day to day lives and I am sure that I treat her better than how some heterosexual guys would. Although I am not religious I do believe in some traditional values.
    Lol she deserves someone who is actually attracted to her.
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    (Original post by Fermion.)
    How can you be gay and not want to have sex with the same gender ..
    We can't decide sexual attraction but we can control whether we decide to have sex with whoever we want. Just like I can decide whether I want to go to the shops or play football for example.

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    (Original post by deroon)
    I want to have a heterosexual life in which I hope to eventually marry a women and have children. I genuinely do love and care about my girl and enjoy being like any other heterosexual guy. There is more to a romantic/married relationship than sexual attraction - sex is only a small part of our day to day lives and I am sure that I treat her better than how some heterosexual guys would. Although I am not religious I do believe in some traditional values.
    Do you feel any romantic attraction to her?
    Also, to the other posters, I think he's saying that he's gay but doesn't want to act on it, rather than contradicting himself.

    Well what about when the kids leave home? You'll be bored together and longing for some c*ck. She needs to be with someone that wants the full package when it comes toIrelationships. It's sad and selfish really that you have this attitude. I feel sorry you feel pressure to have kids and get married conventionally, but you don't always get what you want in life. I want to do the same, but like you I'm gay. But I'm not gonna compromise a woman with my selfish wishes though.
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    (Original post by Abu_Lahab)
    said he'd never want to have sex with another man, I mean if you're gay there must be at least 1% of your brain that wants to do it, right?
    Yes but I ignore that.
 
 
 
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