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    Oh wow, this is so creepy because you are describing me down to a T. I am also a heteroromantic homosexual in that I'm sexually attracted to guys but have absolutely no desire to be in a relationship with one. I don't know why I feel like this, it's automatic. I've always known that I want a wife and kids and the idea of marrying a man is a huge turn off, it does nothing for me.

    I am slowly attempting to turn myself straight though. I've given up gay sex, no longer watch gay porn, and when I do masturbate I don't think about guys, but girls instead. At first it was quite difficult, but with time I've found my attraction for women has started to increase.
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    (Original post by Loopy91)
    That's a very childish way of thinking. You should remember that not all gay men are camp and queeny, plenty are very masculine too. All I can say to that is get over yourself really.
    Thanks for all your contributions Loopy91. I am sorry - I have not meant any offence to gay people at all. Going to have a drink with my GF.
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    (Original post by Loopy91)
    I think you wish that was true, but I bet you've fancied men in a way that you feel a drive to be in a relationship with him.

    As for having children, well, we don't always get what we want in life, you just have to suck it up. Also if you have any siblings, if they have kids, you could dote on them and build a good relationship with them to compensate for your lack of children.
    Don't just assume that. I'm also a heteroromantic gay and I have genuinely never ever had the slightest desire to be in a romantic, proper relationship with a guy, the thought of it turns me off completely.
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    (Original post by deroon)
    I do think that I would feel less manly If I was gay and having sex with a guy and I would be a lesser man compared to my mates who can boast about their girlfriends. I fear that receiving anal sex from a guy would feel much more submissive than sex with a girl.
    I've done anal and believe me, you're not missing anything, it's horrible. Receiving is so painful and not at all enjoyable or pleasurable.
 
 
 
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