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    Oh wow, this is so creepy because you are describing me down to a T. I am also a heteroromantic homosexual in that I'm sexually attracted to guys but have absolutely no desire to be in a relationship with one. I don't know why I feel like this, it's automatic. I've always known that I want a wife and kids and the idea of marrying a man is a huge turn off, it does nothing for me.

    I am slowly attempting to turn myself straight though. I've given up gay sex, no longer watch gay porn, and when I do masturbate I don't think about guys, but girls instead. At first it was quite difficult, but with time I've found my attraction for women has started to increase.
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    (Original post by Loopy91)
    That's a very childish way of thinking. You should remember that not all gay men are camp and queeny, plenty are very masculine too. All I can say to that is get over yourself really.
    Thanks for all your contributions Loopy91. I am sorry - I have not meant any offence to gay people at all. Going to have a drink with my GF.
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    (Original post by Loopy91)
    I think you wish that was true, but I bet you've fancied men in a way that you feel a drive to be in a relationship with him.

    As for having children, well, we don't always get what we want in life, you just have to suck it up. Also if you have any siblings, if they have kids, you could dote on them and build a good relationship with them to compensate for your lack of children.
    Don't just assume that. I'm also a heteroromantic gay and I have genuinely never ever had the slightest desire to be in a romantic, proper relationship with a guy, the thought of it turns me off completely.
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    (Original post by deroon)
    I do think that I would feel less manly If I was gay and having sex with a guy and I would be a lesser man compared to my mates who can boast about their girlfriends. I fear that receiving anal sex from a guy would feel much more submissive than sex with a girl.
    I've done anal and believe me, you're not missing anything, it's horrible. Receiving is so painful and not at all enjoyable or pleasurable.
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    Start going to the gym
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    (Original post by ESKETITTT)
    Start going to the gym
    lil pump yuh
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    its possible though.....i have this bst friend(girl) of mine,she's 19, she told me she has feelings for this famous girl at our school but then she also talks about her boyfriend ........so dont wory that much
    i think its weired though
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    you are using her! stop! leave her! she's wasting her time with you it's harsh but true, she deserves to be properly loved! if you want a het relationship get with a gay girl in the same position or someone who understands and doesn't mind at least b e h o n e s t and let her decide. if you love her you won't continue this, you're being selfish! you both deserve happiness! i see your problem fully believe me but it's not her fault
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