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I made a HUGE mistake- Can it be fixed? watch

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    (Original post by paulcompaq)
    Over time it will all be water under the bridge and she will come around. If there is love there then nothing should get in the way.
    We have some mutual friends. The two girls rarely talk or see each other, but so far, the girl I like has said the reasons she won't date me is because;

    Her 'friends' other ex moved on with her other friend. She doesn't want to hurt her.
    She doesn't want to be the girl who 'stole' her friends boyfriend. Which I can understand.
    The girl I slept with would constantly show the girl I like pictures of us together to upset her out of jealousy.

    There is definitely love involved, I worry that she will let her self respect and dignity get in the way. In her eyes, she'd have to loose her self respect and dignity to love me.

    She doesn't think like the rest of us. She is old fashioned. She won't have sex with anyone unless she's been dating them for at least 6 months. She's really proper. She doesn't agree with people sleeping about like 'animals'.

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    She's already talking to other guys! She's an absolute thot.
    Thing is, the girl I slept with had one of her other boyfriends sleep with her friend and was 'heartbroken' and she told the girl I like all about it.
    So the one I like must feel like she won't let that happen again. They've only seen each other 3 times this year so It's not like they're best friends. It's just the girl I like is so respectful.
    disrespecting women, particularly her friends, by calling them hoes, will get you nowhere.

    Hearing what you said, you deserve it.
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    If I was her I would probably would not be able to trust you again, think you will have to put it down to experience and learn from it
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